It seems more and more difficult to find a guy that checks all the boxes for me. So today I found myself giving a blowjob to a guy with a nice fat cock, we have chatted off and on for several months and decided to meet. But he’s all top. Only wanted to get a bj and has no interest in giving one and I was still very horny and wanted to get off too. So I drove across town to visit another guy I know that loves to give head but isn’t interested in getting. I dropped my pants and he went to town giving me a fantastic blowjob. It had been a long time since I had cum and I didn’t last long before I filled his mouth. He was sitting on his stairs and I held on to the railing while I jerked and spasmed giving him a several day load that he happily swallowed. And while in both instances everyone got what they wanted I miss getting naked and taking my time with a guy and have both of us be satisfied. Is it a similar experience these days with some of you?
Luckily for me I've had a regular guy for 14 years now but prior to meeting him I'd hooked up with many guys just wanting a blowjob. I enjoyed sucking all of them off but there were a number of guys I would have loved to get fully naked with and satisfy each other's desires. There were a couple guys I'd hooked up with wanting to have mutual oral sex, but after I'd sucked and swallowed their load, they lost the nerve to suck on mine. Yes, it was disappointing, but I understood their reluctance to suck a dick for the first time.
I know one guy who only wanted me to edge him and then get him off, followed by escorting me out the door. I never returned to his house. I prefer just what you like-- a guy who makes sure both of us get off and then is not embarrassed afterwards.
Sounds like business as usual to me. I once sucked off five guys before I ran into a sixth one who wanted to suck me off but it was all still a great day for me. Unless you have an FWB, everything else is an occupational hazard and stuff you go through to have sex with guys and if you're not willing to take what you can get, well, I don't know what to tell you. As a rule, I will not suck the dick of any guy who doesn't suck dick.