I am still married to my first love. 20 years (may of this year) We have been together for 25 years altogether. I am sure I would never get over...
I think lying is what bothered me the most but I kept checking up on what he said and he hasn't lied to me since. He knows how much he has hurt...
Mlee, I was going to ask-why are you so upset by all of this? It seems like every response you send you are getting more upset. I didn't come...
Deedra seems to get this whole picture. When I first found out of my husbands affair I was completely crushed. I couldn't eat, sleep or even...
One more thing, my husband did not leave me. A person cannot be everything to one. My husband did not stop loving me, he talked about me with...
Mlee, you can say what you want-this is what this forum is about, but you have no idea what we have been thru, and no, once a cheater always a...
Just the opposite. It really excites me to know that he was with her. My husband and I started going out when I was 15 and he 18. We grew up in...
Bella, I would like you to know that we didn't just sweep this under a rug. We went through hell and back and found something that we never...
What everyone said is true. He wasn't up front about anything with me at first and the trust was broken. At first I was devestated but something...
I expected some people, most people, not to understand any of this. We have an unconditional love. I'm not worried about him leaving me anymore....
I have been going through a period in my life where I feel I am changing. Growing up and letting myself be who I really am. I have been married...
Blind love and stupidity at first. Here it is again about not knowing what you would do if you havn't been in this situation. We have been...
I havn't been on here in a very long time and I seem to be older than most of you here and have been going through the Affair thing for 2 years...
I am wanting to feel what my husband has in the way of it all being new and exciting. I just have to let myself get there. I am, in reality, a...
You will know when a person is cheating. I have experienced it through my husband. Go with your gut instinct. If you feel something is wrong...
Mary, What you said is exactly how it should and has to be. Open communication and honesty is the key. Mine is a very long story about how I...
I havn't been here in awhile but this is so interesting to me. I really believe that you have to be honest and use communication always. You...
What a great thread!!! I have been looking for people who believe in this. I am just starting out i this direction. If you have read my other...
We have 3 children as well. They are 16, 14 and 12. We had some slow years but never non existant or close too it. I can relate to being wiped...
I know that people and society think that because you are married you can't have another best friend of the opposite sex. I have found that this...
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