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#11 audrey_the_endotherm

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Posted April 20 2016 - 06:47 PM

I think this is an EXTREMELY oversimplified view of men. I mean basically you are saying that for a man to be worthy for you, he can't have any insecurities and at the same time he cannot be too overly assured of himself. Doesn't leave much room for him to be human. Men can have disorders, complexes, insecurities and all that stuff women can and still retain a ton of masculinity and confidence.

I didn't say any of that, but thank you for putting words into my mouth.  All that I am trying to communicate here is that the TC's oversimplified view of women is wrong.  We don't reject nice guys and fuck alpha males has suggested. I am offering an indication as to why men believe such nonsense. As well as an indication as to why men get rejected sometimes, nervousness and self-doubting is not the answer to success with a women. And all of this is true in reverse as well.

 

Not one man or woman is immune to disorders or insecurities, I have them and my boyfriend has them.  



#12 aoabai

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Posted April 20 2016 - 06:53 PM




Everyone has insecurities and neurosises. Just don't show them on the first, second, or third date. Wait, until you got them with your good traits, so that they have developed some sort of attrchment to you, then show them your bad traits.

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Posted April 20 2016 - 06:56 PM

I didn't say any of that, but thank you for putting words into my mouth.  All that I am trying to communicate here is that the TC's oversimplified view of women is wrong.  We don't reject nice guys and fuck alpha males has suggested. I am offering an indication as to why men believe such nonsense. As well as an indication as to why men get rejected sometimes, nervousness and self-doubting is not the answer to success with a women. And all of this is true in reverse as well.

 

Not one man or woman is immune to disorders or insecurities, I have them and my boyfriend has them.  

 

It's a generalization,  I don't know who TC is. Guys probably have enough shared experience to relate I suppose.


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#14 audrey_the_endotherm

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Posted April 20 2016 - 07:01 PM

It's a generalization

Yes indeed, I need to begin reading what I type before hitting the post button. 



#15 Wizardofodd

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Posted April 20 2016 - 07:23 PM

I read a great thing a while back about "nice guys" that basically said "Oh...you're a nice guy? So what?" There are plenty of nice guys out there. That doesn't make you special. It may just mean that you were raised properly but that....by itself....shouldn't count as a personality asset. You should just have that anyway. What else do you have? Can you make them laugh? Can you make them comfortable around you? Can you make them feel special to you without making them wonder if the only thing on your mind is how fast you can bang them? Can you listen? Can you be open and honest? Can you get past whatever hangups you have that have nothing to do with them? Are you presentable and not rude? Can you be a person that they want to spend a lot of time with? The list can go on and on and the same questions could be asked of women but....just being a nice guy....that may not get you very far. 

 

Best of luck. I meant all of that in the best way possible.


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#16 neonspectraltoast

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Posted April 20 2016 - 07:23 PM

 

And all of this is true in reverse as well.

 

Who doesn't have self-doubts?  I mean if someone is compulsively saying "You don't really love me" that's one thing, I couldn't handle that, but I don't care if a girl has self-doubts.  On the contrary, it can sometimes be pretty cute.  Sometimes the people with huge insecurities are actually the coolest people.  It really takes all kinds I suppose, but there's a huge demographic of people who don't fit the mold of traditional gender roles.

 

There's such a huge double standard for women these days.  Girls are free to go around saying "I want dick" or whatever objectifying thing they want.  And most guys are ok with it.  I'm not ok with it.  Most women aren't okay with a guy who is like "I want pussy" right?  Those guys are considered gross and unattractive.  The girls are considered "strong women".  Or a girl can say "A man should be masculine."  Well what if I said "A girl should be feminine"?  What would you think of me?  A lot of girls would call that misogyny, if men started critiquing women by how "feminine" they are.  What does it even mean to be feminine?  Well according to feminists, it can mean anything.  A girl can be anything she wants and still be a woman.  That's feminism.  The same isn't true of men.  A gay man is not a "man" as such, for instance.  He isn't "manly".  I find this disgusting and wrong.



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Posted April 20 2016 - 07:42 PM

Try self-depreciative humour.

 

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#18 Karen J

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Posted April 21 2016 - 04:46 AM

the nice guy can't get laid.

 

How old are you?

 

The shallow, athletic, asshole type guys peak early in life, then the nice guys get their time in the sun.


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#19 Meliai

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Posted April 21 2016 - 07:08 AM

Like any of you dudes ever pursue a woman just because she's "nice."

What a generic personality trait.

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Posted April 21 2016 - 07:15 AM

Like any of you dudes ever pursue a woman just because she's "nice."

 

I'll bet they've dumped a few for being bitches.


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