Wife Sharing - what type are you into?

There are tons of posts on this site about wife sharing. There appear to be 4 main types of wife sharing couples: Cuckold; Hotwife; Stag/Vixen; Polyamory. Over the years, I have found that I am drawn more to one style over the others. I suspect many of us our. So, what type of wife sharing do you practice or do you most enjoy and why? Below I have included a brief description of the styles. Please feel free to add anything I might have missed.

I will start it off.... my wife and I are a Stag/Vixen couple. We practice wife sharing together. We only play together. I love hearing her cum while another guy and I have our ways with her. It is amazingly hot watching her suck someone's dick while I fuck her. It is equally hot when she reaches out to me and plays with me while a guy is slamming into her. The other thing I really enjoy is reclaiming my wife (sorry but that is what it is called) after we are done playing.

Cuckold - the old standard. This style of wife sharing usually has a domination/humiliation aspect to it. It is often about a Bulls superiority in fucking a man's wife when compared to the husband. Often both the wife and husband humiliate the husband. The husband enjoys this dynamic and wants to be dominated, humiliated and controlled.

Hotwife - This style of wife sharing usually involves the hotwife fucking other men with or without the husband present. The hotwife may date, play and even have a boyfriend on the side. The husband gets off on the stories of his wife's sexual exploits. The husband often also enjoys knowing that his hotwife is sexually desirable to other men.

Stag/Vixen - This style of wife sharing usually involves MFM (or MMF if that is what you are into) where one of the men is the husband. She is the center of attention and the guys have a united goal of making her cum as much as possible. The husband and wife often keep an intimacy and connection during the play session.

Polyamory - This style of wife sharing usually involves one or more other people as part of the relationship. This may be another man, woman or couple. This is a group environment that involves more of an emotional element. In wife sharing this may include a long term boyfriend, lover or live in addition.

 

I have never known what i am ,as i haven't shared my wife yet. She did have an affair about 10 years ago, felt guilty and told me. At first I was annoyed, but that very quickly turned to arousal when she told me how many times they fucked. Since then I have been obsessed with wanting to share her, one on one whilst I watch, and then eventually join in. I have been told that is "cuckold", but I have never felt that I want to be humiliated, nor do I have any desire to put my face in there, to clean her up after he has cum in her. All I want is to watch her get pleasured by another man. So perhaps I am hotwife, even though she is not by definition a 20 something glamour. I really did not know there were different types of sharers, as I am just a newbie with desires.

 

Our experience fits the Hotwife scenario as you define it.

 

I would say what you are describing is hotwife. Hotwife doesn't mean a 20 something glamour. There are hotwifes of all different sizes, races, ages, levels of attractiveness. It is more about the sexual attitude and desire. It is a fun lifestyle. Hope you experience is someday if that is what you desire.

 

Yeah, I know the definitions are a little generic. Everyone has different levels and shades into their particular experience. Those are just stripped down definitions to set a starter benchmark for everyone to go off of.

 

I would be a combination of three of those. Hotwife, Stag/Vixen and Polyamory. Sometimes my wife will fuck other guys when I’m gone. We have had several MFM’s and she has a steady boyfriend. I’ve never wanted or would want to be humiliated. I definitely want my wife to be the center of attention.

 

I'ts a hot experience sharing one's wife! I started sharing my wife late in our marriage my only retreat was I hadn't started sharing her sooner! I first shared her with a buddy of mine! My wife didn't want to at first because she knew him well plus he was a buddy of mine but she finally did and once she felt another guys cock other then mine she loved it after that she gave her pussy to those who wanted it and there were plenty of guys who wanted her!

 

I have shared my wife one time. We were with a couple that are good friends of ours and it was just the wife who had fun with her. I was all about that. It was one of the hottest things I have ever seen

 

Not shure where we fit in that me and my husband share but its another female. Both of us play dominant roles. I'll use toys strapon ect and we just share a girl.

 

It's

 

Now that must have been something to see! I got hot just reading your Quote!

 

It was amazing

 

She going to do it again!

 

I sure hope so

 

Who won.....lol.

 

Nice overview! I also was a bit lost with all the variants. But I have been able to put the label Stag/vixen on us.
I am quite dominant myself and have no desire to be humiliated or bypassed. I want to be there and join in

I enjoy seeing my wife with another guy for several reasons:
- I like the visuals, it's like seeing your wife being your personal porn star
- I love seeing her enjoy to the fullest. It's not only the other cock or our combined attention she enjoys but also the intimacy and the thrill of doing something 'naughty'
- I find the taboo on sharing your wife with a "competitor" very intruiging. Normally it would go against my own ego, but to be able to go past that and actually allow someone else to do things to your wife that are not allowed makes it very hot.

From her side: she's not interested in humiliating me, she's also not a size queen, she doesn't consider herself a slut (but likes to be called one) and enjoys the abovementioned things.

 

Years ago never heard any of these terms, but we tried it all. more couple, couple. All fun!

 

You have said it perfectly. I agree with all of what you said. It is a lot of fun and the visuals are amazing. I am confident enough in both my masculinity and my marriage to be secure with sharing her and watching her enjoy someone else.

 

Stag/vixen mostly with an occasional hot wife

 

Not yet any of those. My boyfriend really wants to see me with a big black dude. I've had black men before but he just really wants to see me get it on.
We've not done anything yet other than he's seen me kissing another guy while dancing and had his hand between my legs rubbing my gusset as I was looking at my boyfriend.
So I suppose we'd fit the "Hotwife" label here, just not had sex yet.