I think the term has come to have connotations that it wasnt meant to have. I believe the term likely comes from the feeling of meeting the person who you will come to love. It's not something that you can recognize and identify immediately, but it is a real thing.
Love at first sight actually happens..when you look at him or her and realize in that instance that he/she is the one you would love to grow old with..that is love at first sight.. I would like to share a few relationship quotes.. “You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” “Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.”
To me , it feels like....ok , you see this person youve never met before...and you suddenly feel compelled to KNOW them , like pulled in their direction....its like a mild obsession I guess.
Exactly. It was the strangest thing... I just knew we were going to end up together, even though I was with my boyfriend of 3 years at the time and we'd barely met. We ended up becoming friends, and for the boyfriends sake I tried to justify my growing love for him as innocent... I'm not gonna go into it but he got arrested and ended up doing almost a year in jail so I went on with my life except I wrote him now and then and one day he decided to come out and tell me he had feelings for me... to attempt to describe the way I felt when I read that letter would be bordering on pointless. Everything spun out... I felt like the wind got knocked out of me... I could hardly breathe... there was no denying it... so I broke it off with the boyfriend put myself on a greyhound bus and hi-tailed it back to Oregon to wait for him to get out. Weve been married for almost eight months now And thats exactly how it started... I was immediately compelled/drawn to this person.
Feels so good and hard to describe. I felt like that towards a girl back in high school... unfortunatley the feeling wasn't mutual. I still think about her all the time and I wish I could be with her now even though I've met lots of other nice girls. She hasn't even changed much...looks the same as she did in high school which was over 10 years ago for me.
I fell in lust at first sight with someone I went on to fall in love with a few days later. It was like being run over by a bus and being insanely happy and excited at the same time. Weirdest feeling ever.
Had it not happened to me, I'd have never believed it could happen. And it was the only time in my entire life that it's happened to me. For her it appeared to be the same. We were together for just a few short months before her death. I've never fully recovered and that was over 5 years ago.
I'm inclined to agree, however there's been times when I've met someone and it instantly felt right and wasn't even about sex.
Yes but these were romantic soul connections and each time I felt like she was "the one". But fate had different ideas and I never saw them again.
right! well for a soul connection it has ta be more than one person connecting.thats where the connection thing comes in, in any kind a connection. better luck next time.
i think it's lust and brain chemistry. i too know someone who thought every guy she met was "the one". If it was a soul connection, it would be reasonable to assume the person would feature in your life beyond the expiry date of endorphins.
well he did'nt say everyone he met. but i agree with what you say ta be true.if its real ,it will last.