What Constitutes Loss Of Virginity?

You don't always get a simple answer to every question.

 

I gave a clarifying answer. Simple is a request from the confused and hungry

 

It is useful in terms of being unaware, virgin.

 

I kind of skimmed this thread but maybe the answer lies in...are you experienced? Have you ever been experienced?

You've given and /or received sexual gratification or you haven't.

This kind of reminds me of a time in high school when a buddy of mine and I were discussing what constituted "fucking". He and a girl were in the process and he said he only had a couple of inches of his dick in her when they were interrupted and they had to stop. He said he never fucked her. I said he technically did. So I asked him what he would think if I just let a couple of inches of my dick hang around in his moms pussy for a minute or two. Does that mean I fucked her or is that cool with him? He agreed with me after that.

 

Your answer was about as "clarifying" as a muddy letter, in a hail storm, on a moonless night.

 

I know, Karen. I just didn't think that this was going to be one of those. Sigh.

 

I was clear in my answer. your clarity is a matter for your mind to fathom.

 

I know you wanted the titillating answer. The one that sucks any reason out of the issue and leaves us with brutish impressions.

 

You just keep believing that.

 

I wanted a definitive answer. I didn't (and don't) give a rat's ass how "titillating" it is.

 

Virgin is untested

 

Why is going to help you get your answer?

 

Times have changed.

Kids are doing hand jobs younger and younger, and they see porn online, so they aren't as likely to have the innocent mindset that most older people associate with virginity, regardless of what they have physically done.

My husband and my boyfriend both know the highlights of my sexual history. There's no one particular defining moment that I consider to be more important than all the others. The old drama of viewing everything in terms of before / after the moment of losing one's virginity (in the traditional sense) is fading into cultural history.

 

I agree. Based on the opinions I've collected here, plus searches on a whole bunch of other websites and forums, my wife and I agreed that she "lost her virginity" to her high school boyfriend. I'm just the first guy who she actually fucked. That conclusion works for both of us and we're happy with it.

Personally, I like reliving/reminiscing some of our old sexual activities, like "remember when you and so-and-so fucked in the car in that busy parking lot?" or "remember the time you and I fucked and all of those people could have seen us?" Those are happy memories and I like hanging onto them. Of course, we have to be careful. Some of my happy memories aren't so happy for her and vice versa.

 

Oh yeah, sharing the old stories can be super hot!

When people get too hung up on a single word and its technical definition, you can end up with absurd situations such as Catholic school girls calling themselves virgins even though they've lost count of their total number of parters for ass fucking and sucking dick. Yes, that really happens!

 

Wish I had been able to explain this as cleverly and creatively as these two girls did. I've seen them a few times on Jay Leno (Tonight Show) but they had to water down their act quite a bit for NBC, as most of their original material could only air on HBO.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygam6uXgI-w

 

Jumpin' Jesus H. Christ on a pogo stick! That is hilarious!

 

My departed lady friend had her hymen broken by a doctors fingers when young. I think she figured that she was still a virgin until she had coitus. She also figured the doctor was a clumsy moron. I concur.

 

Oh---funny ass video!!

 

Lost mine on a dirty mattress in a falling down garage when I was 10 and she was 13. Best 3.2 seconds of my year.