Personally I prefer larger/thicker..8-9 inches..At 51 I've pretty much been with men of all sizes. I guess that a smaller penis doesn't give me the "full" feeling that a larger penis does. Also a smaller penis doesn't hit my g-spot..Now if my partner has an exceptionally large penis 10+ inches, you have to be careful as going too deep can be painful in some positions..ie: doggie...I have been with men who are considered small..They are usually exceptionally caring considerate lovers and take more time with foreplay, making sure that their partners are satisfied orally before penetration. Another thing about small vs large is oral sex..Obviously when you are with a man who is smaller you can take a lot more in your mouth without the gag reflex kicking in.... You wanted to know why average to large is preferred. I told why I prefer larger and you state that I must have had a lot of large objects/penises in me to not be sxatisified with a smaller penis. I did not say that a smaller penis has never satisfied me. What I said was what I preferred and why. Obviously you do not have a clitoris so you are only going by what your partners have said feels good. I very rarely have clitoral orgasms during intercourse without manual stimulation. I have g-spot orgasms and a larger penis hits the spot. Combined together it is what you call the ultimate feeling.
kegels. let's get this part out of the way: 7.25 length, .5 on a good day, 5.4 around, .75 on something like horny goatweed. op- some women do care. some might crack jokes behind your back. thing is, do you want to be with a female like that? do you want to be with a female who isn't willing to do kegels and positions that will best utilize your gear? do you want to be with a female who is lazy in bed and expects all of the stimulation to come from your end? there's a word for that kind of female: girl. a real woman is going to be concerned with whether or not she can trust you; whether or not you really love her; whether or not you're going to be able to cook when she's sick and your child needs dinner (stereotypical, possibly sexist statement, but you get the idea). a real woman can cum with or without you, and will cum all the harder because you are the one inside of her. she definitely won't be concerned with novelties such as a more "full" feeling if she's in it for the long run. i'm sure zakarrah would ultimately agree with me on that. you may miss out on some easy, meaningless sex, which is fun as hell, but can leave you feeling drained, lost, and alone, after a while. edit: just get those abs in shape and make sure to use some positions that allow her to have easy access to her clit and you should be just fine.
Yes..I do agree..I would never choose a partner based on the size of his penis. Bottom line is I have been with more avg-large men than small..it's just what I like and have had..
I've had a few partners, one of them VERY well-hung, and honestly, I prefer the smaller side of things. It's all personal taste and genetics.
LOL ok I dont believe a girl ever did that nice fictional story though, if you use lube or go slow that wouldnt happen lol funny though.
Every guy seems to talk about having a big dick, but frankly, the 1-3.5 inch club (non aroused) are a dime a dozen. These are the guys who seemingly are most likely to want to fully expose themselves. It's a shame that the others are not. i honestly think that 2-6 inches is the norm, regardless of what people say. Erections significantly increase measurements of length and girth, obviously . . . The vagina (& the anus too but not as much) is definately potential space that can be stretched quite nicely if done gently and slowly . . . so don't worry if you are large, just try to be gentle and take your time. The clitoris is the heart of the matter for female orgasm, but it always feels nice to have the vaginal space completely filled at the moment too. But, remember, the clitoris is the key. So, size is nice, but it really shouldn't matter with a sophisticated and refined technique . . .
Here's some good advice for all men to consider before posting a "penis size survey" (there's so many of them) Most men ask something to the effect of, "How big do women like it, how big does it have to be to please a woman, etc." Women like penis' that they can derive pleasure from. A three inch dick can please a woman, so can a 12 inch one. People can speculate all day, but why not do some field research. Find a woman, or better yet a few women. If they are pleased regardless of your dick size than you have your answer, had fun doing it, and built some confidence along the way.
Try this on for size. You have absolutely positively no control over the size of your penis. Accept that fact. Live with that fact. Love and cherish that fact. No matter what any woman you have ever been with will tell you. No matter what any woman you've never been with will tell you. There is one fact that is irrefutable you have no control over the size of your dick. No matter what porno tells you. No matter what advertising tells you you have no control over the size of your dick. No matter what creme you try. No matter what pills you try. No matter what exercises you try you have no control over the size of your dick. No matter if you hang a weight off the end of it. No matter if you tie it to a doorknob or the back of a moving automobile you have no control over the size of your dick. No matter what form of meditation or self hipnosis you have no control over the size of your dick. You may think that what I am saying doesn't apply to you. What I say may offend you. But no matter what you believe you have no control over the size of your dick so don't worry about it. Peace Out, Rev J
Now with porn as widespread as it is, seems that most people think that anything smaller than a horse cock is small.
aesthetic-based evolution might make that a reality in the near future. for the brain's sake, women, at least make sure they're smart before you risk having kids with em!
The only people who care about length are men. And inexperienced women. It's how you use the dick that matters, not how big it is.
thank you very much. ive always though i was small and the other day i measured just to see. and i am 5.1" and i thought that was really small. but after reading all of these peoples posts and what you have said, i really feel like who cares. if she doesnt like it than thats fine with me, theres plenty of women out there. Plus, im only 18, and am really thin but have began a weight program and have put on 20 pounds over the past few months, so that certainly shouldnt hurt my size either =]
remember how he said you have no control over the size of your dick? well working out doesn't make it bigger..
no no im not talking about working out i mean i weigh 130 pounds right now, if i would weigh 180 pounds thats deffinitely a chance of being bigger right? maybe not in EVERY case but i mean theres deffinitely a possiblity.
usually, weighing more will make your penis smaller, as fat will build up around your groin and "swallow" some of your length. tightening your abs would work better then gaining weight.
how are regular ppl supposed to differentiate a half inch by eye? i ask the hair cutting lady to cut 1/4" off the top and she scalps me.. wtf