My Husband's So Bad In Bed, It Makes Me Want To Cheat

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  1. John1234567

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    I would say just talk to him. My wife was the only one to tell me what i did right and wrong in bed. News flash to women, guys do not know anything about a womens bidy because.... we are guys and think we know how to do everything until told other wise. Also every women likes different things. Having to initiate things might also be something else
     
  2. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Communication is key. No proper communication is asking for problems. If not delt with properly (by communicating :p) it can become a chronic problem that can only be solved by a divorce. Which is not inevitable if both people still feel in love with each other and would really like to solve this problem in another way.
     
  3. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Ugh.

    Yeah because talking will magically make him better in bed or grow a bigger penis
     
  4. OldDude2

    OldDude2 Newbie

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    Marriage is about raising children ...... nothing to do with the adults sexual desires or needs.
    You want better sex, then get a bf/gf.
     
  5. Pete's Draggin'

    Pete's Draggin' Visitor

    I hope my post can help those still out there reading the thread.

    My wife and I are high school sweet hearts. We were each other's first.

    I was a total minute man with her at 17 years old. I could barely take my pants down and there'd be a mess. My Gf/Wife was flattered by this in the beginning. But that changed, ..you would think. I went from my pants to a about a minute inside. I built up to 2 or 3 minutes over a year and a half at 20 years old. I was proud, she was still tapping her foot...lol

    I could tell she was getting "a little" frustrated with me. I remember many times she'd say "did you come already........no ....you didn't.....you did .didn't you...ugh ".
    I'd go into her ass for a second. Her eyes would pop out, "ugh...wrong hole" I'd shove it immediately back into the correct hole and a day later she had a yeast infection. I couldn't eat pu**y at all, my tongue needed a cast before she even knew I was down there. I did "twice the sex with half the fore play". I didn't warm her up, didn't use lube, didn't groom well in the private areas. She would always stop and pick a hair out of her mouth. I had bitter ejaculate. I would always have to tell her to "hold on, wait, wait, not yet, hold on" when she was really getting into oral. I only did missionary ect...ect..yada yada yada. Probably same story as OP.

    She'd say sweet things to me like. "We'll try again later" or "its ok you were really horny". Lol. Later never ever happened. Lol.

    So as young man and husband I realized I have to figure this sh*t out, or I might be out of a job as a husband or there might be a temporary worker who stops by when I'm not home.

    Guys and husbands out there if you think that your born in this world as a porn star. " You'd better flush out your head, new guy".For the 1% ers out there that can fulfill every sexual fantasy for a woman like the Energizer Bunny I applaud you. You have a gift almost every guy would love to have.

    Guys in the 99% class, get off your ASS! Take care of your woman in the bedroom. John Holmes had a gift, but he didn't have what we have today.

    Guys we now have:

    Free porn to learn and edge from
    YouTube educational videos from ladies
    50,000 internet sex shops
    Discrete and fast shipping
    Realistic F*ck dolls to practice on
    Penis Cages
    Penis Rings
    Penis Extenders
    Penis Desensitizers ( say all that in one breath)
    Rx (v*ag*a)
    Yada yada yada.....

    Back to the point of the post. Guys if your lacking in skills to please your woman do something about it. Don't mope around and disconnect from your relationship. Don't shut down. Don't blame her. Don't be cold.
    Bring her into the situation.

    I think all women want good sex. It doesn't have to be porn star sex, just good and pleasing. Put it this way, if she's looking forward to doing it again. You've succeeded. If she's still not there yet getting pleased by you......
    You then have to go back and "hit the books". There is no reason , not even medically anymore to fail in bed.
    There a ninety year olds sliding a silicone phalllic penis over thier own penis's to f*ck there woman with. These seniors might not be able to shoot a load anymore but they love pleasing thier significant other they paint or play jacks with as well as going on romantic walks with their canes and strollers.

    Woman you have your side of this post. I'm just giving mine from a guys side.

    For the OP, your husband lacks confidence, he needs to at least try to finish the marathon, pick him up, wipe his shorts off, pat him on the butt, say it's ok, give him a water bottle and run next to him. Stop a take a break but finish the race.
    Do some research for him. Entice him to get or do the things mentioned above. You have nothing to loose.

    If your running along side him and he's not next to you, look back and if he's got his head down shaking it from side to side , leaning over with his hands on his knees. You have to leave him behind. Good luck with your marriage, I just hope you get a break.


    Note:
    I'm happy to report I'm up to a strong and vital 8min, but im still working on getting that perfect 10min for my goal. Keep trying to get better guys. Your significant other deserves it. My OG/Wife of a combined 28 years is very pleased of how far I've come. Sex is better than ever.

    P.s. she said she'd like to see if I could get to 15min. Lol progress is good and pleasurable.

    Thanks for reading.
     
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  6. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    If interested in females this is like my go to scenario. Lol.
     
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  7. Asmodean

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    That's not what i ment. You're the one thinking in awful clichés here, not me :p
    If people would always assume its better to just quit a relationship before any proper communication there is big chance they learned nothing.
    Properly talking about these matters with each other is not advocated because it will magically solve stuff but it is the best way to gain insight in such an issue. Im talking about a situation where people are not yet completely fed up with each other btw. And where they're wondering how to solve a thing like a bad bedpartner. Not a situation where one of the persons secretly already knows the other won't ever make her happy.
     
  8. OldDude2

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    They learned that relationship was no good.
    Sorry, I don't have anything to say to women apart from 'how much' or 'what's for dinner'.
     
  9. Asmodean

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    Good that you're aware of that :cheers2:
     
  10. la Principessa

    la Principessa Old School HF Member

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    Seems to me like things can improve if he just made a little more effort to understand you.
     
  11. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    wow you know women so well
     
  12. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Well, how the hell does one get into the position of not working this out:

    Before marriage?


    There is only one answer, the truth hurts, but there is only one answer
     
  13. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    But you weren't talking only about her, were you
     
  14. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Well everyone else would just be my half assed opinion

    But its painfully obvious in this case
     
  15. Vanilla Gorilla

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    I have to ask again, who/what are you defending this time?

    Because you both own vaginas you have to stick up for one another? What if you did meet this couple in real life, thought he was a nice sweet guy, her a total ***

    Or is it the institution of marriage? As if you gals dont "grade" others' marriages, make snarky little comments
     
  16. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    I'm not defending anyone.
    And I pretty much never stick up for anyone just cause they're female. .
    I just find your opinions strange, presenting them as truths.
    We do already know you think you are smarter than the average person, but you're no expert on marriage or women. But you always tend to generalize so much.
    Not every woman gets bored or is in it just for the safety.
     
  17. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Talking more about my age range and above

    Its kind of pretty ruthless what actually happens



    Marriage only really works if both parties want to come together to make a family / kids

    Yeah, guys are just as bad as most of them only marry for sex

    You cant marry for sex or money, or even love, if love really just means security, It just comes back to bite people in the arse


    No one really pays attention to old people when they are younger. So you dont see it coming. We grow up in the suburbs, most of the relatives we see we only see at the time because they themselves have kids.

    What we dont see at the time are all the other people that dont mix with people with families, whole armies of grumpy single old men bnecause they married the wrong girl just for sex, or desperate women who got dumped because they just married for money or some guy who ended up being a loser because early on easily whippable

    Its brutal

    Marry to have kids, kids, dont marry for any other reason
     
  18. Mfmfanclub

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    I wonder how this couple turned out. I hope their marriage counseling worked for them.
     
  19. Skeeter26

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    Maybe you could introduce a cuckold scenario and he could watch how to please you
     
  20. Hoosier317

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    Cuckold or hotwife him
     

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