Is This Alot To Ask A Girl To Do After You're Getting Serious...

Just saw this post after my post. Yeah one of her main profile pics is off man.

I know what you mean too about things messing with your head when you get to thinking about them too long!

:grouphug: I hope it works out for you guys.

 

He can still play it cool.

If you don't make something a big deal, then it won't be a big deal.

 

Who's ur boyfriend??

 

My whole post prompted you to ask a question you know the answer to?

Pretty sure all chatters and quite a few forum members know *Doc* and I are an item

 

We dont know who Doc* is

 

Just because you don't doesn't make it a collective "we"

Ash is fully aware and I just wonder why she wanted to ask in public.

 

So wait...her profile pic is of ex dude and her?

Thats weird.

I dont ever bother to delete pics off facebook. I have pictures of guys i only dated for a couple of months still on my facebook somewhere. But making them her profile pic seems like shes trying to send the message that theyre still together.

 

a few people dont make ''all forum members and chatters'' by a long shot....i have no clue
who doc is and wish to keep it that way......

there is a quarter million registered users here....several thousand active every month.....your personal life is safe...unless someone asks about it publicly...thats kinda shitty

 

Yes, I know. It was a rhetorical question. I just wanted you to say it!

 

this is like primary school....let me get my pen and paper. Did you kiss? Tick yes or no

 

Okay, woah woah woah, settle down now.

 

yeah you got a great idea! Thanks i'll mention that when/if it comes up.
It's nothing really bothering me, or that will ruin things!
Our relationship is great, but yeah to put those memories somewhere seperate would be considerate. I got memories of my ex too but it's something I want to keep private.

They're not the current profile pic but like she only has 10 and like 5 of them are with him, and a bunch of others is photo albums that I never really cared about.

This all does seem silly and childish when i read it back, but it doesn't change the thoughts i have going on.

 

it's normal to be jealous dude, but don't act out on the shortcomings, ie, telling her you don't like the pic and wanting them deleted. just respect her man, be cool, care for her, if she wants those pics on her profile let it be, stop looking at them.