I thought I had already posted in this thread but seemingly not. 6 - 8 partners in a lifetime seems incredibly small if u take a maybe average sexually active life of maybe 50+ years. When I married 26 years ago (& I could still remember them) my wife and I counted up the women I had been with....65....that was over 22 years single; so not really a huge average per year. She had not been so active but had her tally though if I remember more like 10 guys over 13 years. Since then there has only been one other woman...one fling in Indonesia, once, but maybe more than 200 guys.....only about 8 of them during my 22 years single. I had told her of these liasons before we married. My marriage is gradually fading, partly as a result, but partly because we have both changed and being older I am at a different stage in life; and perhaps I have moved from middle of the bisexual scale to the gay end of it. I still look and am attracted by women, but most of the women I like would probably look on me as a dirty old man, whereas there are young guys that I find very desirable, that also find an old guy desirable - and don't apply that epithet. And also the young guys today gave grown up in a different era and are far more relaxed with their sexuality which I find so refreshing So in the last 16 years the average of my m2m liaisons has shot up......perhaps it's as I get older and sex is something I enjoy...so why not...I love the variety...play safe as much as possible and hey if I was asked by young guys today I would say go for it, have as much sex as possible with whatever sexual partner/s is your inclination. I do not believe in re-incarnation so we have one life, why not enjoy it? Just my take on it..... Simon!
Recounted and I'm at 13. Damn, I'm a ho. Really though,does it count if the sex was the worst you ever had and forgettable? Also does it count if I can't remember the guys name and just wrote ''socks" in my tally..cuz he left his socks on during sex..
Do non-physically-present spiritual partners count because if so I'm hoping to some day find out what the number is and I'm thinking it's going to make me famously angry.
I haven't been with an other person in the flesh for ten years. Lemme look in the rearview mirror: OMG, whatta slut!
I counted one time and now I can't remember. It's quite a few. I can't remember the second person I slept with for instance. I remember the first, and other memorable occasions. Then of course there are some who I regretfully did not sleep with.