Guys, how do you like to be given head?? I don't know what to do!! Help!

I recently started dating this guy, and I really like him. He doesn't pressure me into having sex with him, but the other day, we were fooling around in my room, and he started going down on me,

At some point, he made me feel his penis, then I started giving him a bj. The thing is, I am not very experienced in giving head, and also, he has a really big penis (in girth), it's even hard for me to fit it entirely in my mouth...

I was embarrassed and I told him I didn't have much experience, and he told me not to worry and that it was ok.

I like him and I wanna pleasure him, but I am really having a hard time... If he's going down on me, do I have to feel obligated to reciprocate? If so, any tips? Mature answers are very appreciated, BTW, we're both 27+

 

just relax and ask him what he likes, ask him to tell you what feels good. he'll probably get off on telling you what to do.

 

Just the fact that you're willing is half the battle. There are lots of guys out there that have girls that just will not do it. Just relax and do your best....ask him what feels good. He'll like it.

 

Practice, if you can't fit his cock in your mouth, try using your tongue. I have been with a few boys with cocks too big for my mouth, but after using my tongue and saliva,I managed to get at least half in my mouth. He shouldn't complain and like others have said,ask him what feels good.

 

Get his cock really wet with saliva and jack him off; its much the same thing.........

 

wet blow job, with plenty of deep throat, tounge the tip of the penis for a minute, then go down to the balls and suck one at a time

 

I would feel kind of hot if a girl I`d just started seeing called me up saying she wanted to practice some more of that bj techinique!

Good luck, baby.

Edit: Are you a pleaser?

 

Go to Tube8.com look up "Blowjob Demo" it is an excellent instructional video.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

alot of women dont understand that sucking dick isnt just running it over ur tongue, the first girl that gave me head would have just stuck it in her mouth and breathed on it if i was small (girth) and she would have called that a bj, u need to actually use a sucking action on it, play with ur self while doing it, this may speed things along if you arent comfortable doing it, weather its top or bottom, he will enjoy it, u shouldnt really feel that u have to give it back, but i think its fair, if u dont what else are you going to do??? are you willing to have sex with him, if it goes as far as him going down on you, im sure he will expect things to go further than that, like a bj, hand job, or sex, guys just dont go down on girls, u have a O, and things are over, lol, i guess that is a piggish thing to say, but its the truth......Good luck!!!!!

 

Good oral sex is not what anyone here says it is. It is whatever you and your boyfriend think it is. So long as you're both enjoying, it's good. And so long as you like doing it, you cannot really do it wrong. Eagerness and enthusiasm are way more important than technique. The best way to learn what he likes is to ask him. No one can tell you more about what he likes than he can. Talk to him. And enjoy yourselves.

 

You have to get to where the tip of his knob slides easily down your throat, without gagging, or with, depending on his preference. Try lying on your back on a bed, with your head dangling backwards off the edge of the bed, so that it straightens out your throat.

Let him have his way with you.

This is what it is to be a woman.

 

I allways give the best bj's when I'm super horny and REALLY want to be doing it.

My advice would be not to do it just because you feel obligated... wait for that moment when you really want his cock in your mouth and just go for it.

It will come naturally.

 

I like to lie on my back with the girl down at my cock looking up at me as she slides up and down the cock tongueing it. If girls only want or only can fit the head in their mouth, that is fine as long as they give plenty of attention to the frenum. I am circumsized. I especially like it if a girl will put my balls on her face and lick and nibble at them during the blowjob. Down underneath the balls is really good too. Have fun !

 

I would recommend that you watch some porn to see how other girls do it and all the techniques they use. Xhamster has some great amature porn.

 

Just ask him what he wants. You'd be surprised at how many guys wouldn't mind you just paying attention to his dick. Kind of stroking it and playing with it, kind of put the tip in your mouth some times while your stroke. You don't absolutely have to jam his head so far into your throat that it pokes your lungs. Just make sure you pay attention to how he reacts to things. And if all else fails, go with what S T R A Y said, check out some vids to get an idea.

 

I usually spend some time licking it all over, before starting to put it in my mouth. If he's really big or really long what I do is get him really wet with saliva, and wrap my hand around his shaft, then move it up and down while sliding only an inch or two into my mouth. That way he gets the visual stimulation of it going in and out of my mouth, and his whole shaft gets worked. Plus it gives me good control so it doesn't slide too far in and cause me to gag. You can also use your other had to play with his balls while you're doing it. There's bound to be many different right ways of doing it, but that's just the way I do it.

 

Ding! Ding! Ding!

 

First, shave your lips and make it clean and neat. Second, let him go down first - just open the leg and enjoy. Third, when you getting horny you will have desire to giving head.
Four start from the mushroom head first, when you get more horny you will go down further, please take note Rome is not built by a day, it take time to craft your skill so unless you are comfortable other wise don't force your self to do deep-throat. Final don't take the load of milk juice down unless you like the taste. Enjoy !

 

Hair on the lips? Shave lips? Where you gettin this from, dude?

:leaving:

 

Contrary to the description "Blow Job" the best one I ever had was from a girl who could literraly suck the chrome off of a bumper. You have to provide some sucktion. And then do it long and slow for me:love:.

And then you must Swallow. It is already in your mouth, what is wrong with swallowing it.