Hello. I went away to university and left my 2 1/2 year relationship at home. This may be hard to hear, so get prepared. If she says she loves you, she probably does. However, when she goes away to University shes gonna have parties, boys looking at her, etc. All of the girls she will probably meet will be single. She will get hit on. She doesn't want a boyfriend through all this. She technically doesn't want a relationship, but she wants to be wild and have fun. Alot of girls go through this. If theres any hope in it all, most of them get depressed halfway through if they are sincere enough because she will miss the one who actually loved her (you). If you're up for waiting that long for her and letting her go wild, she will Probably, Eventually, come back to you. Its such a shitty position to be in dude ._. I'm sorry. I hope things work out for you in the end and you are happy.
thanks guys. its ok, im down with the whole situation now.i dont care if she does stuff with other guys or whatever cause i know im gonna do stuff with other girls.like i said where more then just boyfriend and grilfriend or ex's where best friends, me and her are always gonna be friends and where always gonna have a bond whether where a couple or just buds.we talked it all out last night and i think everything is gonna be cool.whatever happens happens....if im with her in the end then it was ment to be.if we arent then it wasnt and thats ok too.i know that theres always another person out there.
:cheers2: Excellent - That's great that you guys were able to work it out. Good luck - and who knows what the future brings!!
^thats what im sayin....you never know.thanks all you guys so much you made me think clearly and helped me sort out my feelings.*hugs to all*
first things first, how long have you been together? How old r u both? Then ill let you know what I think lol