If this an example of today's youth,we are screwed,and not with a condom either!Don't believe the hype,Dump this sorry loser,and find yourself a young man who will actually care about taking care of his girlfriend,not some prick looking to notch the bed post.And above all else,YOU must be proactive in this matter,Protect yourself first,no condom,no yum yum,that simple. Well!Atleast that is what I would have said!
I don't think the OP represents "today's youth" in general because my girlfriend would have been much more sensible at her age, or even younger for that matter. The way I see it, it's all about education. Accurate information about contraceptive methods yields safer sex.
- "jessica fischer was last seen:Jan 8, 2018" -I guess with 9 months now passed, It's a fair guess what happened here
My wife and I use pull out pretty much exclusively, 4 years now. We have one unplanned child from it lol. That happened after about one year together. For the last 3 years it has worked. However, we also track her ovulation so I know when she is most likely to get pregnant and I'm extra careful. Then during the last week right before her period I nut inside her. As of a week ago we are trying for child #2 so this is no longer applicable.
Pulling out is as reliable as being able to piss on an electric fence faster than the electricity can get to you.
My first sexual relationship was with an older woman. Tried the condom route but that was before the AIDS epidemic and condoms were more like rubbers. We went the pull out method and it worked for the whole time we were together. It also worked for her other partners she was having sex with. The best times were right before and during her period. No need to pull out and the climax was better. We all dodged her getting PG. It would have been a fiasco finding out who the real father would have been.
Yes. But I've found I can never rely on a guy to pull out in time. And I completely understand why. So I protect myself.
Think you guys should really start picking baby names. Or maybe because hes a dope you should cover yourself and get some birth control. Im getting the feeling hes not going to glove up because he cares that much. If you dont want to be Pregnant by 20, your in charge of your body not him. Good luck.
If he had any real caring concerns about you then he would wear a condom . Apart from the obvious birth control qualities it guards you both against potential STDs which can be very nasty .Coming out early doesn't not work as there will be sperm in his pre cum. So for your own sake if not his, insist on him wearing a condom . As a lady you could consider carrying some as well as you never know for when they will come in. I think he is being very selfish here IMHO. If he refuses then dump him and move on .
Some very good recommendations from many. If for some reason you prefer to avoid birth control methods, I suggest trying to please him orally. You still have to worry about diseases, but pregnancy won't be a problem. And you might just learn to enjoy it. Haven't met a guy who doesn't like it!