does pulling out work

and it's done.

the problem being it feels like I've been seriously kicked in the groin.

Planned Parenthood does this at a reduced cost, and with your insurance it might be free...

PP does not work with HMO insurance, but they have low cost options. Their vasectomies are notably not reversible , and I was notified that there's no foolproof going back... What's done is done. Sometimes you can reconnect everything, but I'm told "it doesn't always work".

it feels like i've been kicked!

 

The best way to soothe it is a bag of frozen peas, a cocktail and a blowjob....well, just for therapeutic purposes anyway.

 

With my ex wife I used to have sex without a condom for a bit then either put on a condom to finish or blow my load over her belly, back or once on her feet. Turns out she was having sex much more often than me, hence ‘ex’ wife

 

Pre cum contains a lot of sperm! The guy literally doesn't even need to ejaculate

 

Learn to respect yourself, first of all.

Stop giving it up automatically for strangers.

A few times in just 4 weeks??


You barely know him.


You out here having unprotected sex with a stranger, refusing to protect your own self just because he wants to bang you raw.

You're going to catch something...

Like a child, and/or STDs, sti's, some incurable illness or disease.


He won't be around if you do.


Do you have such little self esteem and self respect that you're letting guys have their way with you automatically when you first meet??

It's nothing wrong with causal sex, but at least wait until you know the basics and some more about him.

If you ever want something serious, this isn't the way to go with a person.
They won't respect someone "easy" naive and gullible.

He doesn't respect you.

Nobody would want anything genuine and serious with you because you don't respect yourself.


That means in addition to your foolery... you've been letting a stranger in your home, and/or going to his or someplace..

Smh..



Your lessons to learn and grow from.

Hopefully you will.

Learn to do better and love yourself.

 

Dear Tiddy: Tell your boyfriend that people who rely on pulling out, have a name for to use. The name is parenthood. Your body is yours and men are so controlled by hormones, they do not think about consequences. My wife and I used pulling out when we were dating, and it is too easy to have an accident. Precum is often laden with sperm. If you are looking at this guy s a potential life time partner, Get Tested for STDs and get on the pill or install a IUD. Have a wonderful life. Wally

 

I'm not the one who created this thread.

19 year old Jessica who just recently graduated from high school (I'm assuming) who seems to entertain strangers, instead of perhaps entertaining college, trade school, job, other. If she is she needs to shift her focuses more.


She'll learn one way or another... hopefully she will.

 

It 87% effective. So, 1 in 10 times (when you are ovulating) junior will be created. Not great odds.

 

Russian roulette at best. We’ve all done it at some point though.

 

Takes the edge off a bit anyway. When you’re balls deep inside and ready to cum I personally just want to cum inside her. Taking my dick out at the last minute just isn’t that appealing.

 

The pulling out method works 100% of the time and is super effective in preventing pregnancy.... If you're 2 gay men. Otherwise, if you're a straight couple, then you'll highly likely get pregnant at some point.

 

Exactly. In the heat of the moment, when you really want to cum on her body, its hard to not to cum deep inside her

 

I had a girlfriend when I was a kid (well I was 21) many years ago and I pulled out. Over the year or so we were together we had to have fucked a hundred times, probably more. She used the calendar method to know when she was hot and not. During the not hot time I came deep inside and never once did she get pregnant. It's not because she wasn't fertile either. She found Mr. Right and they had a child together. Looking back now I realize it was quite risky to fuck like that. Even with her calendar method there still could have been a slip up. a late egg release.

 

It’s never 100% and TBH its basically like playing with a loaded gun. Keep in mind that no birth control is 100% effective, much less using the hoe and pray method.

 

I know a couple who spent more than a year after their marriage, carefully managing their sexual behavior, in order to conceive a child. The male partner even posted a sign on his home office door referring to a stud service check within. They had a calendar that depicted ovulation predictions and numerology. All of this was with no success. They were suffering from anxiety from their inability to succeed. In desperation the finally adopted two kids and achieved fulfillment. Sex now became a relaxed process without anxiety and stress. One month later the female partner got pregnant. The lesson is that conception or non conception is a complicated process of emotion and physical skill.

 

Well you must be very talented at that act to keep your husband satisfied in that way. I am much the same way with my ability in there. Years ago a friend and I had something in the way of a panel discussion with some younger females that aspired to be more adventuresome sexually. We were basically encouraging them to swallow when sucking cock.

The artist formerly known as Mistress Margaret

 

Thank you for giving us hope for the next generation.......

 

Hi Miss Margaret: I do not understand your reference regarding pain associated with penetration. It sounds more like a problem of technique with one male partner or a deflowering episode. I am not very experienced with sexual exploits from multiple women, but feed back from female friends during my dating years, after proper foreplay, was that penetration was the most wonderful experience that they could imagine. One partner frequently experienced a vaginal orgasm during penetration and a more dramatic orgasm after love making.

 

There comes a time in a womans life when the vagina loses its elasticity. Unable to stretch to accommodate a penis the vagina signals pain, sometimes excruciating pain, throughout the vulva. That kinda takes away the pleasure of cock insertion. Not every woman is besieged with this but the majority are. That's why you will find a lot of posts where the wife no longer provides her pussy to her husband for him to fuck it.

 

Thank you Straightmale: This is news to me. It seems unusual that an organ capable to transporting a baby to the outside of the uterus can constrict o the pain of intense pain.