I crave a challenge in everything I do! So seeing a huge cock brings a little element of fear that just adds to the desire!
It is no use having a huge cock not knowing how to use it. Foreplay is so important you have to get a girl prepared to take it I have always said expression on her face is important when thrusting her getting complements after is good. She herself will feel good knowing she was able to take a huge cock
My wife says only that her one previous guy was, "long", And, "sometimes it hurt when he went too deep.". And, "he fucked me a lot", And, if I could lie on my stomach it didn't go so deep.".
Did your wife say if she enjoyed the sex? My girlfriend told me about having sex and even made sure we had a mfm threesome. She had several big guys but not all that great, but she also said she had small guys, that were not that great. I'm just glad I 'm better than average, and thick. I joined a few couples, where the guys were on the small side. We only had a few mfm threesomes, at the time I liked meeting couples. Don't know when I changed, but love the memory of watching her with another man.
"Did she enjoy the sex?" Well, she was 27 and still a virgin so the whole idea was strange and uncomfortable for her at first. But it went on for a little over a year and a half, about three times a week (she and I calculated it out to about 220 times she let him fuck her), so she apparently adapted quickly. And when we started seeing each other, she was quite active with the sex part. As soon as she got my dick inside her she'd practically lose her mind. Told me later I took too long with the foreplay! Like you said with you I'm about average but thick-ish, so maybe that was new for her. As to your question, I'd say the answer is yes. (Home video tape was new back then and I made a few.) You have your memory of her with another, but I have to suffice with the imagination of her with him. I've scanned some porn and snapped a few still shots of what I imagine they looked like, based on what she's told me, and asked her opinion. She says they're pretty accurate. She liked being on her stomach, wasn't so much on her knees (too deep) and the usual missionary variations. But he also introduced her to anal numerous times, which was only a now and then with us cause of the thickness. Wow, didn't mean to ramble on.
A little longer than average is good but I prefer larger around for intercourse, the larger girth just satisfies me more as long as he doesn’t cum quickly.
What we don't talk much about is vaginal size. I do know (not intimately) a woman who is always in pain during sex. No matter what the foreplay is and no matter how aroused she gets, it hurts to take him inside. She still loves getting penetrated and she does climax but she really gets sore. She has some kind of prescription to make it wasier. Not sure what it does but she prefers giving and getting oral and anal just because she's so tight. For her, she says that any penis is long and thick. And, in spite of the pain, she does climax very quickly and very often due to her size. I be she feels good around an erection but I'd feel bad for her.