Do you still think about your first love?

She and I are still good friends, and I think about my first sex partner (not the same thing) fairly often. I've considered looking him up several times over the years.

 

first crush was in grade school, first love....I see her every day. cute as the day we meet.

 

First time posters here.
I wouldn't say that I still think about my first love, but she does pop up in my mind once in a while (we broke up in a bad term, my bad) and I know she has a better life now compared than what I can give her so it makes me happy/sad at the same time.

 

Lost my virginity to my first love. She broke up with me the next day. Had not seen her in 20 years. Actually right after my divorce. I would have jumped her in a heartbeat...

 

Well she was a ball-breaker and very negative.

She started screwin around and moved out i was upset, then i met a free-spirit and my life changed.
Strange i have no feelings for her at all except those of my friends at the time and communal houses.

 

i think about her all the time

she recently stopped talking to me without reason (our lives crossed paths again these last few years after about 18 years of not seeing each other)...i think shes turned a bit crazy

 

A woman turned crazy?

never!!

 

I still think about my first true love almost every day. How I would do things differently and not hurt her so much... I miss her a lot sometimes, but then I realize that the man I'm with is my soulmate, and she can't ever compare to that c:

 

Occasionally

 

I think about him often. I glad we are no longer together. I have had a chance to reconnect with him as adults. Didn't turn out to be a good thing so we are no longer in touch but I do run into him occasionally. I don't hate him. I just don't need him to be a part of my life. I've been happily married for 14 years and I don't need someone like him trying to cause problems. I will always love him and he will always hold a very special place in my heart. He has made it very clear he will always love me. I can forgive the bad because more importantly than him being my boyfriend he was my best friend when I needed someone. He was the ONLY person I could depend on when my life fell apart. He was one of the best friends I've ever had but one of the worst boyfriends. I miss that friendship and I miss him but I know I am better off not having him in my life anymore. I wouldn't trade what I have in my marriage for anyone in this world. I'm a lucky girl.

 

Well said Sniff. I think that's why I won't ever marry. .I can't settle for less than that first love feeling. I've only felt it for one person.I try though to not think of her. Sometimes though she still invades my head. I don't know that I want to feel that love feeling again ever. I find myself in relationships that i don't get emotionally wrapped up in. Easy come/ easy go. The breakup with her really messed me up. Took me years to get over her and To feel like myself again. I don't let myself fall for people. I keep an emotional distance from whoever I'm dating. I've always been that way and the one time I wasn't it ended badly.

 

I think about my first love on a daily basis. I married her twenty+ years ago and she still makes me feel like I have just met her for the first time. I have the privilege of waking up with her next to me every morning!!

 

Yes I do. Not one kiss has been as perfect since then. I do miss that very much

 

Although my wife has had a ton of sex partners, she says she never loved any of them. She does however think daily about the guy that popped her cherry on her first date 43 years ago. We have been married for 26 years and she still lets him fuck her whenever he wants.

 

Yes I still think about my first love, and would love to know what has happened to her. We had great sex together for 6 months then she moved away to attend college. We lost touch, moved to different cities and internet searches have not produced any leads.

 

i have to admit that i often think about my 2nd, 3rd, and 4th love quite a lot, and wonder what might have been, and the odd thing is that all 3 went on to marry assholes.

dunno if it is healthy to think about them, especially when you have been married 23 years to someone else ???

 

I was in a relationship for about 7 years in my 20s but ended it when I realized I really didn't love her. We both had our own issues but the bottom line was that whatever passion started it had long fizzled out for me. It was a pretty harsh breakup, she ended up suing me over nothing because she worked for a lawyer but it was fruitless as there was nothing I had to actually compensate for. Then about a year later she approached me for a noncommittal sex only ongoing type of relationship. I had already moved on and couldn't believe what she was doing. Our peer groups heavily overlapped but even as we stayed in touch with many of the same people we never saw or spoke to each other again.

A few years ago I moved to another city and one day I was walking out of a grocery store as she just happened to be walking in. It was a matrix moment, everything slowed down and the world seemed to shrink away. We locked eyes for just a split second but it was long enough to know what we were both looking at. Getting through the doors we both looked back towards each other one more time, I nodded, she shook her head and then we both carried on our way.
I called a friend who I knew still talked to her regularly to find out that she also moved and actually lived about 10 blocks from me.

I don't consider her my first love but she was my first cohabitation, I don't really think I even had any love until I was 30. I was never into anything beyond sex before her and don't really think I figured it out until long after she was out of my life. I occasionally think about every woman I have ended up with from time to time though and although I couldn't say I wonder where they are at or that I would really care to see them I do hope they are well and wish the best for them. Despite that we eventually fell out of grace with each other I believe they brought something into my life that makes me who I am today and I'm thankful for that.

 

I'm still with mine.

 

I still think of mine every time I look at my block list on facebook.

 

We can block people on Facebook?