Are Transgender People Really Trapped In The Wrong Body?

OMG, heteros are the worst

 

Most of the time, I think I was born in the wrong body! I shouldn't have arthritis and fibromyalgia! It doesn't fit with how I feel on the inside.

What's the matter with thinking you want a different body?

 

But seriously, ive always had the most trouble with bi guys

Guys like iamthor who probably is 1/2 a foot shorter than he always wanted to be or had every other male family member extra butch....over compensating for those kind of reasons

Still nothing compared to some guys. Guys like him miğht huff and puff in front of certain people, gets a little annoying....but not the type who will then turn into your personal stalker when they think no one is watching.

There are different types of angry, what sounds nastier over the internet certainly doesnt match up with whats creepier in real life.

We wont be hearing from many trans guys in this thread, cos there arent that many around, but i know the case is similar

So even if they huff and puff, still get on better with straight guys like that, than the sneaky ones.

Funnily enough with the chics, tend to get on better with the sluttier ones as they are not so much worried about competition and half the lesbians, the ones that are actually lesbians i.e wont get all twitchy around some of my guy friends.

Which should make me ones own personal radar for those kinds of things, takes to long for everyone else to work that out....which leads to another reason to get angry.

Its like no one knows what they are really like or what everyone thinks they are because too caught up with what they want to believe.

Denial, the most powerful force in human nature

 

There's a difference between disliking the flaws of your mortal coil and getting radical plastic surgery to permanently change your body. I don't understand what is hateful about asking legitimate questions as to the nature of the condition before snap judgements are made in either direction. I have never argued that people shouldn't be able to do what makes them happy, but if they still want to off themselves even after surgery that's hardly helping them to be happy is it?

 

Most of the things you brought up in the OP were fairly valid. It's hard to take them seriously though when you add stuff like, and wouldn't you be uncomfortable sticking your dick in another inverted dick, or saying it affects other people who use public washrooms.

 

The only point of that was that if a transgender is a real woman would a heterosexual man be comfortable having a relationship with them. My perspective is no. On the point of bathroom use all I'm asking for is a little caution before we start drafting legislation or further reinforcing the delusions of a potentially delusional person. If you don't see those as valid points that's an opinion I can't take away from you.

 

What the hell--if that outy is turned into in innie---I'm on it. Or in it. Delusional ? Pussy is pussy even if it's on a cow. Not that I--never mind.

 

It just seems like those particular points are based very much on your personal comfort level. I know lots of guys who would have no issues dating someone who's vagina used to be a penis. A good girlfriend of mine is also dating a guy who used to be a girl and she says the sex is just fine. What society is and isn't comfortable with shouldn't have anything at all to do with this discussion.

 

Now, that's the one I have wondered about . A female into a male? What about the --you know.

 

personality comes first.. no I wont want to be with a post op trans because I like my shemales with cocks.. jenner is a rarity since more trans choose to keep genitals than not....

 

I have an acquaintance who is going MTF. I don't know how far he plans to go, physically. He is in counseling and on hormones right now.

He has the full love and support of his wife.

 

Actually I believe Jenner still has a penis. That was another question of mine though, if someone is trans truly identifies as the opposite gender why do they so often feel attached to their "wrong" genitals?

No right or wrong answers as to whom one is comfortable sleeping with, didn't intend for my comments to make it seem like there was. Just offering my opinion and trying to encourage others to offer theirs.

 

Because they were born in Brazil or Thailand where chicks with dicks are a common occurrence..

 

How would anyone know the answer to this question unless you've personally experienced it?

 

Bathrooms are a red herring. There are places in the world with unisex bathrooms and they manage just fine. Plus how would you know for the most part other than bothering to look when you don't need to. You could be standing at a urinal and someone next to you could have transitioned and you would have no idea. It should not matter.

You keep bringing up the suicide rate and how they need therapy rather than surgery to help avoid this happening. Transgenders can not have surgery without having had extensive therapy to begin with. The argument for more access to support for anyone in crisis I totally support but I also know that the access is limited and the wait times for it are ridiculous. I think that for most even after transitioning there are still societal issues that must be very difficult to deal with. That is my personal opinion not one I can base on any facts and simply on compassion for another person.

I do agree with you though that more needs to be done for anyone in crisis and it is something that should be a given that if anyone needs help it should be there and they should not be told it is a six month wait to see someone.

The majority of transgenders do not go with a surgical route. The reasons are probably as varied as the people who are transgender. I do not think it is an attachment to their body parts but a reality that they have to deal with in regards to how serious an operation it is and how extensive it is to not only have done but to qualify for. Let alone for most the cost can be prohibitive.

Even those who choose to do hormone therapy must undergo extensive therapy before they will be prescribed medication. It is not something you can announce to your doctor and they simply write a script. The therapy is to assist them not only with the changes in lifestyles but also the transitions and expectations that have to be reality based. There are also those who are transgender who choose to do none of those things and simply live life as the opposite gender.

Sexuality is so complex in all of us, accepting that there are differences should be a matter of respect of fellow humans. If the person is an adult and there is no harm to another, they should have the right to live life as they choose.

 

i use the Cissy bathroom

 

lol... you mean sissy?

How about hermaphrodite bathrooms?

 

Use whatever bathroom you like.

I do not associate bathrooms with sexuality, at all.

Maybe I've been more open than some.

I've spent many camping weekends, at clothing optional events, using outdoor shower facilities with people of all genders and identities showering in the open next to one another.

I never once felt sexually turned on, nor repulsed, in a shower environment there.

I'm certainly not going to give a damn who is in the stall next, to me or washing their hands in the sink next to me, in a public restroom.

 

why would any grown man want cut his dick off, take the rest of the skin, tuck it up to create a vagina, get a picture takin to show your face that was reconstructed by doctors cause of your self-doubt and mass money to show the world its ok?

then we have a mass population saying its ok and she is doing what she feels is what needs to be done. umm its a fucking GUY who yes, has serious mental problems and people congratulate him from doing something so fucked up.

WTF... seriously WTF

 

They are not trapped in the wrong body, they are trapped in the wrong brain.