Not for a woman....especially if a bit tipsy. An ex went through all the motions of putting a condom on, (but pulled it off before entering without my knowledge.) I did not know until he pulled out and didn't go through the actions of removing the condom and realised. I was so angry....and became pregnant that night.
1. I think you're a troll 2. If you're not a troll, I sense you have the potential to be shocked when live gives you a slap in the face, and you'll start devolving because of bad days life gives you that you have no control over, and your potential wife and offspring will suffer for it. But I still think you're a troll.
It sounds from your original post you are half hoping she is pregnant, so you can marry her etc. I think this is part of the reason why you did what you did, given your obsession with her and the way you state "If she is pregnant I will marry her etc" What you are not factoring is that she also has a say in whether she marries you, you seem to be assuming she would automatically say "yes" when in all likelihood she would refuse as you have only been together a very very short time. Additionally, she may choose to abort, how would that make you feel? You have made far too many assumptions about what her response would be if pregnant. You are treading on very dangerous ground. As I said, I have been there on the receiving end of such foolish actions as yours and had a baby because of it. He, however, was not around to see it, neither has he ever seen his child, as I stopped ALL contact and got an injunction when he was stalking me to an obsessive level. I understand how you may be struggling to sleep. What you need to do is LEARN from your foolish mistake (we have all been foolish.) You need to wait it out to see if she is pregnant, and if she isn't, thank your lucky stars and NEVER make the sane mistake twice. If she is pregnant, then you need to come clean with her - as a real man would. You need to lay your cards on the table and do not, in any way, shape or form, pressurise her into having the baby or getting married. You need to back off and let her come to terms with whatever decision she makes. ANY form of pressure will make her run a mile and you will never see her again. Support and pressure are not the same - supporting her would be doing exactly as she wants you to do - if she asks you to back off, you must do so, otherwise this could turn nasty for all concerned.
If you behavior is the result of that love, she is better of without it. What you did has nothing to do with love and a lot to do with power and selfishness. "If she is pregnant, I'll marry her and take care of things." "I love her so much that I'll lie to her and deceive her." Stop trying to trap her with a pregnancy. Frankly, you sound like a proto-stalker.
IF this is not a troll...... Love is first and foremost honesty, trust and communication. If you truly loved her you would tell her at the first opportunity what you did. Apologize and be up front and honest. It would be better to lose her for the right reasons than to begin a relationship based on dishonesty. The reward of having a true love has to be greater to you than the fear of losing her. Because setting the foundation of a relationship with anything less than total honesty is NOT real love and will eventually kill what you think you have like cancer. I mean no disrespect to Inca or anything said. Just agreeing in a firmer way!
My gf called me yesterday and said she felt very funny these few days and afterwards she tested on a pregnancy kit which is positive. She is little devastated to be pregnant right now since this is bit early for her (esp her career is quite good in banking). I told her I will be in this with her and will see a doctor this week. We did have other intimate moment after our first time so she didn't really question what actually happened. I understand many of you are mad at me, but I love this woman and I will take care of her and our child for the rest of my life.
Firstly, I think you are a troll. Secondly, if it's true, you trapped her. Poor girl, she deserves someone better. You are insecure and kind of a loser.
Hahahahhahahahaha u sir sound like u had a plan ..... Thing is that wasnt a nice plan hahahahha I can't stop laughin
