2019 Resolutions

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  1. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    Share your resolutions for 2019!

    1.) I'm not making excuses for shitty people anymore.
     
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  2. Tyrsonswood

    Tyrsonswood Senior Moment Lifetime Supporter

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    1. Not make resolutions...
     
  3. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    I dig this. Resolutions are not for everybody..
     
  4. Deidre

    Deidre Follow thy heart

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    I’m going to see things through before leaping to conclusions. (Career related)

    I’m going to give people the benefit of the doubt more. (some people)

    I’m going to cut down on frivolous spending. Repeat to myself “wants are not needs, wants are not needs.” lol
     
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  5. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    2.) I'm going to continue to not buy any new clothes (apart from socks and undies) and only shop in thrift stores.
     
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  6. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    I have the opposite problem. I give people the benefit of the doubt TOO much, and it's gotten me into some seedy situations.
     
  7. Deidre

    Deidre Follow thy heart

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    I used to be like that, and did a 180. But sometimes, I’m wrong about a person.
     
  8. Aerianne

    Aerianne Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I hate New Year's Resolutions.
     
  9. Driftrue

    Driftrue Banned

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    I'm going to keep on doing everything I've been doing, because it seems to be working out okay.
     
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  10. Ashalicious

    Ashalicious Senior Member

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    I'm learning how to be non-judgmental and empathetic without feeling the need to have a relationship with somebody. I've been working on this with my counsellor, actually. I just don't want to become hard and jaded, or develop trust issues (though that's already kind of happened).
     
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  11. Deidre

    Deidre Follow thy heart

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    Yea, it’s hard to get hurt be people you trust and not become guarded. I was friends with my husband for a few years before we started dating and he said he knew he had a big wall to climb to get to my heart. Kind of pathetic lol but true. He did it though and he shows me everyday that there are good people in the world. :)

    Don’t be too tough on yourself. It’s a process.
     
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  12. Meliai

    Meliai Banned

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    I have to take control of my physical health in the new year. I've been ignoring it too long i hopes it would go away

    And my mental health if i'm being honest, i've been a little depressed and whenever I get like this I have to fill my days with things that feed my soul and give up things that make me feel bad about myself..so I need to give up lazy days, give up watching too much tv, too much time spent online, and start reading and writing and exercising more and spending more time outside, etc.

    There's really no reason to put any of this off until the new year but I probably will. January 1 is always a nice starting point

    And I said this last year too, but next year will be the year i'm going to write a damn book
     
  13. scratcho

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    I have to beat this procrastination syndrome. Next year.
     
  14. Joshua Tree

    Joshua Tree Remain In Light

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    I resolve not to be so irresolute.
















    But I haven't decided for sure yet.
     
  15. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    i don't like new year's resolutions, because it's just an excuse to put off whatever changes you want to make until january.

    i don't think i have any particular changes i want to make. there's stuff i want to do, but i'm already working on it. i guess i'd like to be more successful at those things, but that's not really something you can resolve to do.
     
  16. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    Well I hope I get my pool career back into shape, but other than I don't know, I don't do resolutions much.

    Have fun
    Live life
    Probably drop more MDMA
    Have a sick ass fun camp trip again in Oktober. :D
    Hopefully not get a job
    Maybe even write the lyrics to my rap album.
     
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  18. Ged

    Ged Tits and Thigh Man.

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    Have a productive year. Get out more and do fun and exciting things and save money. (This might be a difficult combination.) Oh, and health.
     
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  19. StellarCoon

    StellarCoon Dr. Professor

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    drawing more, doing more art and music
     
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  20. YouFreeMe

    YouFreeMe Visitor

    I agree with Undies: I am already working towards personal goals, and in the past waiting until January 1st just gives me another excuse not to start yet.
     
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