I have known who this girl for basically forever, but 3 weeks ago i really started to like her, first girl i've liked since i got dumped a few months ago, but i don't have any classes with her (im in high school) and i don't have her number. Basically the only time we talk is after school in philosophy club( once every two weeks. My question is how can i initiate getting her number being i would only need it just to talk to her instead of for "in case i forgot the homework"
first, if you just got out of an relationship, dont rush to get in another, you know, chill... but, if you talk to her every time you go to the philosophy thingy, its pretty simple... like in the middle of the conversation, just ask her out ... and dont worry
i haven't been in a relationship in 8 months, its just that i think this girl is pretty nice and kinda cute, i just want to talk to her more and see where things lead
philosophy club is after school right? ask her what she is doing after if you know something cool goin on ask her to go get coffee with you before going to club ask her to go and get coffee or go somewhere cool some other time during the club
if you're 21 and still in high school, you should be using every bit of your concentration to graduate and not even thinking about relationships.
you are 21 and in high school still?...going up to grade 16?.....maybe girls shouldnt be a priority right now....just sayin
PM. Or, like the others said, invite her to go to Starbucks (or, whatever the highschool equivalent is) after philosophy club. I think you`re in a privileged situation, btw. I would love to be in your shoes. You have a regular, common interest and you have contact information. I hope it works out for ya! :2thumbsup:
Just make sure you have a way of transportation to hang out. A driver's license and a car is ideal. (Assuming you drive safely)
