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#1 aaahot


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Posted February 04 2017 - 01:12 PM

How is your sex life after getting children??

After we have kids our sex life changed a lot, we hardly have time for our self .. my wife is so connected to the kids and I sometimes feels that I am left out.

I know the load is so much on her with 3 children and she is pregnant now .. and these all my children..

I am not sure if it's only me or you guys had the same experience??

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Posted February 04 2017 - 01:29 PM

my wife is so connected to the kids

Yeah Lola, more than you'll ever realize

Or more accurately, allow yourself to realize

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Posted February 04 2017 - 02:03 PM

But when it's bed time... time to play. 4 kids wow..... i got fixed after 2

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Posted February 04 2017 - 02:08 PM

No kids here. :)

Sex is good. :)

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Posted February 04 2017 - 02:31 PM

No Kids here and no sex either

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Posted February 04 2017 - 02:38 PM

I don't have kids, nor have I had any kind of sex in recent memory... However, I have had sex with a young woman who had a child and found that sex to be a rewarding experience. She had been a teen mom and had to give the child up for adoption, so no kid to speak of that time. There was another mommy who did have a kid in my life. One time we came close to getting hot and heavy, but in the end we only kissed. It was a good kiss though! :) Cool thread! 

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Posted February 04 2017 - 05:16 PM

All I can say at this point is there is life and money after the kids are grown and gone. Stay committed to your family for now. Your rewards will come later, Our kids are done and my wife and I are on a never ending honeymoon.
That said,I would consider getting a vasectomy and stop the madness.

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Posted February 04 2017 - 05:34 PM

We had a similar experience. Both of us were tired from work, cooking, cleaning, caring for kids, going to kids' events, and so forth.  We decided that we had to make time for ourselves, kind of like "Adult play time."   We had to schedule sex activities and locked the bedroom door.  Nobody got in unless blood was flowing under the door.



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Posted February 04 2017 - 07:05 PM

No Kids here and no sex either







Cheers Glen.

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Posted February 05 2017 - 03:42 AM

I can only talk from experience - 1 child, single parent, so sex for 6 months was totally non-existent. Then I re-partnered and it was like the Dambusters breaking the dam walls. Yee Haa!

Ahhh. I wish!