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#1 gingeroot

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Posted December 18 2016 - 11:33 AM

I have been feeling really weird lately. And I don't know what to do. Here is the problem. My GF is 42, I love having sex with her and making her happy. She is nice and smart. But she doesn't care about be really at all. She doesn't even pretend she cares about me. She just treats me like a kid and a toy which is fine if she even pretended she liked me. I never thought about that before. All the women I've had sex with, even ones out of duty or just fun at least pretended that I was important to them at the time. I'm also really embarrassed and ashamed and really confused today. My GF knows at least that I used to have sex with my male best friend which I thought since she said she used to do the same with her female best friend she would understand. But she makes fun of me for it sometimes. Anyway we went to a Christmas party last night and she told a couple of the guys there. Later after a few drinks one of the guys kissed me and said I was cute. I said thanks but that I had a gf. But he said he really liked me. I was a little drunk and I told him I didn't want to do anything. But he was a big guy and he ended up bending me over and I guess I let him do what he wanted. Afterwards I was sobbing cause I felt ashamed at what I did. But then he was really nice and held me and was really caring. Then I felt really bad because he made me feel better than my gf did. I didn't like it but he at least made me feel nice. Now I don't know what to think.

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Posted December 19 2016 - 01:21 AM

That's how 42 year old women are .........

 

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Thought you had gone, missed your posts!

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It's great reassuring to know there are  guys out there more as fucked up as I am!

PPPS

Report the guy to the police for rape, 'cos that's what it was.


Edited by OldDude2, December 19 2016 - 01:25 AM.

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#3 Vanilla Gorilla

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Posted December 19 2016 - 02:21 AM

This one sounds made up

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Posted December 19 2016 - 03:17 AM

This one sounds made up

 

You don't think all the 'sex encounters' posted on these forums don't sound made up?


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#5 gingeroot

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Posted December 19 2016 - 08:05 AM

That's how 42 year old women are .........

PS
Thought you had gone, missed your posts!
PPS
It's great reassuring to know there are  guys out there more as fucked up as I am!
PPPS
Report the guy to the police for rape, 'cos that's what it was.


No, it wasn't.

I didn't try and stop him really and I could have. I just didn't want to.

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Posted December 22 2016 - 09:06 AM

Well my gf broke up with me because of this. It doesn't matter I was thinking I should break up with her anyway.
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#7 Piaf

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Posted December 22 2016 - 09:10 AM

This one sounds made up

 

How does the topic just come up at a Christmas party?

 

Those parties are just chit chat, and not "my boyfriend over here used to have sex with a guy"



#8 gingeroot

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Posted December 22 2016 - 09:26 AM

It was kinda wild party. It isn't like there was warm brie and classical music. But I don't know, how does anything come up?

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Posted December 23 2016 - 05:58 AM

How does the topic just come up at a Christmas party?
 
Those parties are just chit chat, and not "my boyfriend over here used to have sex with a guy"


My works Xmas parties always involved sex with people you just met.
We were forbidden to bring partners as it interfered with the debauchery.

Edited by OldDude2, December 23 2016 - 05:59 AM.

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#10 NoxiousGas

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Posted December 23 2016 - 08:22 AM

My works Xmas parties always involved sex with people you just met.
We were forbidden to bring partners as it interfered with the debauchery.

 

So do you by bullshit by the truck load?

You must considering the copious amounts of it you spread around.


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