Would you date a fat person?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Jimi2007, Nov 24, 2007.

  1. Jimi2007

    Jimi2007 Member

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    Be honest.
     
  2. Greengirl

    Greengirl Senior Member

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    absolutely honest-no. without offending anyone!
     
  3. Jemima Truffles

    Jemima Truffles Member

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    Why does it matter?
     
  4. Bumble

    Bumble Senior Member

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    only if they had a really good personality.
     
  5. Zajko

    Zajko Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Why is there no selection for: "yes, I think fat people are SEXY!"?
     
  6. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Been there, done that, wont do it again.
     
  7. katyismename

    katyismename Member

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    how fat? a bit chubby or like 30 stone?
     
  8. bird_migration

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    Honestly I would. Well, not extremely fat, but I have dated chubby girls. Although usually I prefer petite girls.
     
  9. Mitok

    Mitok Senior Member

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    Only a bit chubby, if they are at least hot under the fat (they'd be hot without the extra weight). But incredibly fat chicks, no. Never.
     
  10. wutthe4k

    wutthe4k Mr. Mojo Risin'

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    depends on the girl, but more than likely no. in my opinion there's a fine line between chubby and fat. some girls can pull off being chubby and they're still wicked cute, even the chubbyness. lol. does anyone else agree?
     
  11. Beccy

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    some chubby guys are cute, but i dont think i could be attracted to someone really fat.
     
  12. Mitok

    Mitok Senior Member

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    Ya, I have a friend like that. She's chubby, but she's definitely able to pull it off.
     
  13. kristyclueless

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    Honestly? No, I wouldnt. I used to be fat myself (260+ pounds) because I obviously think it's unhealthy and unattractive, so why would I want to date someone fat?
     
  14. salmon4me

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  15. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    being overweight myself, yeah, i woudl. my bf happens to weigh less than me at the moment, so im assuming hes ok with dating me, overweight and all

    some of yall are pretty harsh tbh
     
  16. peaceloveandsunshine

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    well i love some chubby guys, they are soo cudly and cute, i llove to snuggle with them. but i dont like dating unhealthy people, people who dont take care of themselves and who eat junk food all day are gross.
     
  17. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I agree. Well, obesity is a larger health and psychological problem than looks. It isn't simply a matter of taste. As far as a little baby fat, I'll go for it any day.
     
  18. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    Some men actually prefer women of some substance...
     
  19. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I see what you're saying and I'm glad to know you are in a mutually understanding relationship.

    I'm a smoker. It's an unhealthy compulsion much like over-ingesting. It doesn't show but it smells. And it does reflect underlying emotional patterns. We all have them, and it's not a matter of passing judgement so much as understanding what these things reflect and what each of us can tolerate.

    Should I not be understanding toward someone who'd rather not date a smoker?
     
  20. uzume

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    I can deal with some love handles, but a very fat man wouldn't be attractive to me. Aside from not being attractive physically (to me), I would assume that his lifestyle would not be compatible with mine, as I am pretty energetic and active.


    I also think that obesity is a precursor to other health problems.
     

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