Would you be creeped out if someone told you they wanted too spread there dads ashes on your proper?

Me and my sisters are a dilemma so my dad last wishes were that his ashes be spread at our great grandparents camp big problem we don’t own the camp anymore my grandparents sold it years ago this camp is in the middle of no where no cell service nothing we drove up too the road didn’t drive in cause that’s trust passing on someone’s els property and the People have all this creepy Jesus stuff at this camp there was a car parked at the being of the road going into the camp I mad suggestion they we leave a note on there car explaining who we are crazy thing happened my sisters patient is neighbors with the people who own the camp now I guess this guy knew my dad and grandpa and they did not get along so the people got our note and they thought it was a weird note the people who own the camp are in Florida I say we walk in and do the ashes then leave quick but they could have trail cameras up we don’t know what too do we wanna honner our dads wishes but it’s trust passing

 

It's called trespassing. I don't think it's wise. Not everyone gets their last wish.

Why not find some nice campground and have a big party, spread the ashes when no one is looking.

 

Yeah I agree I seriously doubt my Dad would want us break in the law and trespassing and somebody else’s property

 

I don’t know we wanna dump him in the lake my aunt had said three gotta be away that we can do it without actually going on these people‘s property. I mean it’s a big lake

 

we have no idea if these people have trail cams I think about it if you lived all the way down in Florida and you have a camp in Michigan I would think that you would have cameras just with the distance

 

I’m still waiting to hear back from my sister‘s patient if the guy okays us to do it she has not heard anything back, so it’s probably a no go

 

Would that creep you out, somebody wanting to come on your property and spread there dad‘s ashes as his last wishes

 

If the camp is in Michigan, why not go up there, hire a small plane (and pilot!) and fly over the area of the camp, and let out the ashes as you fly over. That way you won't be seen by trail cams, and you won't be trespassing on their property, but your dad's ashes will fall like gentle rain over the entire area.

 

Why not buy a beautiful rose bush, and mix the ashes with the potting soil? With care, the rose could last for 20+ years.

 

You can inquire of owners and ask. Just my thoughts. ;-)

 

:-(

 

No!

 

Well the owners are in Florida we have no way of getting in contact with these people we left that note on there car and they thought it was a weird note it was shot in the dark we weren’t even 100% sure the car park there was the owners

 

This camp is in the middle of no where I mean no cell service up there nothing we could drive in but if we get stuck on that road we are pretty screwed I say walk in and do it quick and if the car is still parked there then we know that are back at the camp

 

I gotta talk too my sisters my sister Sarah plans on coming up in October that’s when we planned on giving it another try but if something happens it will be justified cause we are trespassing

 

O, as long as the asked politely

 

I don't think I'd be. But I'm not everybody. Perhaps you can still do it in a nearby natural area?

 

Sorry for all my typos.. I looked at my post... my excuse is I was watching the Eagles vs Cowboys game.

I would try to fulfill the last wishes by making a series of plan.

Ask permission, if given you are good.

If not, as Whirlwind pointed out go to a nearby natural area. Michigan has many parks and natural area. Most can be found online.

Another option, stop at the nearest town. Have a meal and ask around. You have winning odds that someone will help you. You might even form a new friendship.

Please let us know how things go

 

The problem is this camp is in the middle of no where my aunt said there are only 2 other neighbors that have camp there that she can remember she took my grandma up there they just drove a side by side in but that was 20 years ago and my aunt knew the people who my grandparents sold it too different people must have bought since it was sold my aunt said the people my grandparents sold it where from Chicago these people are from Florida