Hey all, I was curious as to the reactions you get from women when they find out you are bisexual? As someone who only "came out" several years ago, at first I was hesitant to be up front with it, until I became more comfortable with it. Now, I am fully open about it. However, I find I get a wide range of reactions from women when I share it with them. Middle-aged/older women seem to still be more traditional and not really supportive. Although, I am finding that ones that are divorced and rediscovering themselves are a little more open mided. But, the younger generation seems much more open to up, more supportive. Even a lot of them are very excited when they find out and confess that it turns them on, in the same way that us men get turned on by bi women. I get a lot of them telling me they wish more men would be open to it. Anyhow, curious what others are seeing?
In my case, it is only my wife that knows I am bisexual. As far her feelings, as the saying goes....... It's complicated. When she and I started dating, I had a relationship already with a gay friend of mine that had been going on for a few months. At one point when we were together, she asked me with a noticeable twinkle in her eyes, "Have you ever experimented with him?" I said, no, but perhaps I should have admitted at that point, or not. I wasn't very discrete in hiding my relationship with him while we were dating, and neither was he. So, she knew, but was in denial. Several years into our marriage she asked me straight out, "Have you ever been with a man?" So I admitted yes, and she got upset. A few years later when we were moving out of out first home, we walked through the empty house reminiscing. We stopped in the family room and she said, "The first time you were ever fucked in the ass..........by me." She was fucking me with a strapon often then. When she fucked me with the strapon, she would ask if I liked the feeling "of tits on my back." When I started traveling for business regularly, she said she didn't call me at night because I might "have company." Another time, when she found a trail of some of my "activities" while traveling for business she hissed me on her most demeaning voice, "I know you blow black men in your hotel room when you are away." Truth be told, she sparked my interest there. Wife’s ex has huge penis I had a constant hard on after that exchange from knowing that she knew of my activities. Sometimes she would rattle off all the cities I had encounters in while I was away. So, it's complicated, and contradictory at times.