Wifes opinion of Bi Solution

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  1. topper

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    When we first talked about getting a little kinky, I felt that pegging was a great solution for satisfying our needs.
    I love having my ass fucked and she loves to give it to me good, but she admited that although she likes pegging me, she really likes seeing me sucking a cock. She has watched me getting and giving bjs with a couple of friends, 3 live and in person and she will always watch on the boat camera. She said its not the same as doing it live and in person. When we do it in front of her, she says it give her goose bumps and douche chills.For that reason, I always try to take it to that level of thrill for her viewing or voyeurist thrill.
    Does your wife know,and wants to see, or knows but doesn't want to see or know about it.
     
  2. MustacheMan2020

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    My partner is up for me experiencing getting fucked. Sucking dick as well. However, I don't think she would want to actually see me suck a dick. Maybe getting fucked.
     
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  3. FriendlyCock

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    She is OK with me sucking cock at least when I last mentioned it years ago, but wouldn't want to see it. Pity. I suck cock better than she ever did, and I could teach her a thing or two.
     
  4. topper

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    I knew my wife was into the M/M thing long ago. I had told her that I would be cool with seeing her with another woman and she came back with how she would love to see my mouth sucking a big cock. I never got to see her with her friend, but she has watched me numerous times. She always gives a critique on my performance.:screamcat:
     
  5. LowHangers

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    My wife has witnessed me sucking cock more times than I can count. Yes, in the beginning it really turned her on to witness but not so much anymore as she's lost interest in having sex anymore. It's nice having a wife that understands my desires for sucking cock from time to time. Pool season is right around the corner so her and Carol will be sunning themselves and able to watch 5-6 guys walking around naked and spending the afternoon sucking cock. My favorite time of year.
     
  6. topper

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    Likewise, It's my favorite time of the year too. Whenever my friend comes down to the boat, we always wind up sucking each others cocks, before heading home. Seeing all of the hotties in bikinis and thongs put us in the mood, too bad we are just two old horny guys, who have to take care of each other.
     
  7. LowHangers

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    Just being that it is summer, and my "BUD" has a large pool that is in a very secluded place for us all to just do as we please and enjoying the summer sun walking around naked is what we do as it pleases us all whether male or female. If a dick is wanting to be sucked on you suck it, if you are wanting your dick to be sucked you simply ask, and it is done. Everyone is willing to suck on everyone as we mingle around enjoying in the sun, grilling food, and just having a good time. I love sucking cock at the 4' level of the pool as he sits in the pool and lounges back on his arms. I have plenty of pool water to slurp on his cock to get him off as he arches his hips up as he ejaculates into my more than willing mouth for his load of cum. I love it, there is nothing better than sucking dick in a pool area and the wives present makes it all the better as they always have something verbal to ad.
     
  8. LowHangers

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    But you have that option, and it makes life more thrilling to live in. I love sucking dick and when in the moment will suck off just about anyone.
     
  9. Marriedbicouple

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    WANTS TO SEE!! LOL
     
  10. topper

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    Think its funny? It works for us and she is really into it. My friends wife is the one who made the suggestion and my wife thought it was a wonderful idea.She made no bones about being done with sex and my wife agreed with her when she suggested that we take our old horny asses downstairs and take care of each other and get it out of your system. My wife agreed but added that she would love to watch that. My friends wife used to arrange girls for bachelor parties, so she wasn't shy about sex. This saturday we went down to the boat. Rain had spoiled our fishing, but that gave us time to suck each others cocks, twice. It was all recorded on the security camera and my wife watched it on her laptop later that night.
    I gave her something special to watch. When my friend was ready to cum I held his cock in front of my face while I stroked it. All of a sudden he shot right across my face before I could get it back in my mouth, to get the rest.
     
  11. Racer51

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    My wife wants to see me get fucked and asucked but said no suckin dick. She pegs me and eats my ass tho
     
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  12. topper

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    Why not sucking cock? My wife was all for seeing me suck a dick. Not going gay, but doing it for the experience. She wanted me to experience what she has been dealing with for decades. Same thing with getting fucked in the ass. I tried anal twice with our friends, but I prefer my wifes strapon or Manhandler dildo.
     
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  13. Victor OP

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    Hi. This is my first time on this or any forum. Sorry if this is in the wrong place. I just feel it’s time for me to share as I can’t really talk to anyone except my wife, who has been great but a bit uncomfortable about it. I don’t want to hurt her in any way.
    Having been together for about 30 years, the sex evaporated a long time ago. I and she always knew I was bi-curious, but it has got stronger over the years. I never used to like labels, but in conversation with her recently, I now feel comfortable in saying to myself and her (no-one else yet) that I am bisexual, with a bit of a gay preference.
    She was very caring and implied I could experiment elsewhere, but I am not ready for that and don’t know if I ever will be. I will take it slowly and experiment with myself a bit more. To answer the question: she wants me to feel happy but won’t want to be part of it.
    So, although I’ve had these feelings a long time, I feel like I am at the start of acceptance, and will take things carefully.
    Thanks for reading this. Just writing it down was helpful.
    All the best.
     
  14. topper

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    You are in the right place, welcome! The are a lot of older men in the same boat and have discovered that a little safe bi fun is an acceptable solution for satisfying our sexual needs. My wife was done with sex because of medical and physical conditions..
    Her solution was to try a bi option, which presented itself. We did occasionally play around with the strapon, but even that was too much for her, so she suggested that I try it with our old gay friend, who was now on his own and was willing to step up and help out. Both he and my wife thought it would be good for both of us. No lovey/dovey stuff, just getting our rocks off and going about our business. My wife was cool with it and even asked if she could watch us. This group of mature adults facing the same obsticles are happy to assure you that you have discovered a very viable option and can offer advice and opinions that can make you comfortable in your new ventures.
     
  15. Victor OP

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    Thanks, that's very reassuring.
     
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  16. Very Kinkey

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    I want to suck a cock with ladies watching. It would be great!
     
  17. Sigurdsson

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    My wife knows I'm Bi and will peg me but she doesn't want to watch or see and has said that she will divorce me if I were to go outside our marriage. So as much as I want to take care of my needs she will not go for it and it leaves me wanting. Yes I Love it when she fucks my ass but. It's still not the same so I have to just be frustrated and no Cock for me to suck on swallow a load or get my ass filled with a man's cum. It's tough sometimes. And yes there is going to be a Conversation coming about all this at some point.
     
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  18. topper

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    My prim and proper Italian wife, is infatuated with M/M sex since the first time she saw two men sucking each others cocks. I never had any intentions on bi stuff before that. Who knew?
     
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  19. Paddington2023

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    I’ve tried to introduce my desire to suck or be sucked but it isn’t easy as my wife is so prime and proper. The other week I had her agreeing to watching some porn where the wife forces her man to such another man’s cock….or receive a sucking. But with no MM anal as I know she hates that.

    Do you think I could find a suitable scene

    Any suggestions would be appreciated ‍♂️
     
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  20. Katana62

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    I can totally relate to your situation. My wife knows too I am bi and wanting for sex with a man. She even lets me tell her about my fantasies in detail. She will however not let me have sex for real with a man. It is not that she is jealous. She would actually prefer to see me with a man than with a woman. Go figure. What scares her is the STDs. Without this issue, she would not really object to me sucking cock or taking it in the ass. She told me it would turn her on like crazy if she could watch me get passionate with a man. Because I love my wife dearly, I have not gone outside of our marriage. I fantasize about it every day though.
     
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