Why does every guy I've ever been with...

do at least one of the following:
use me
cheat on me
break up with me
play me
hurt me


fuck all of them.
especially him...

:/


are all guys gonna do this to me?

 

probably because you've just been with douchebags and pedos...

statistically, half of all relationships will end with you getting broken up with (you breaking up with him comprising the other half)...

no, some are probably going to be nice to you so you'll just friend zone them.

 

maybe you're just too easy.

 

maybe your the problem.


no offense.

 

it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you
hang in there, it will get better

 

Well you're only fifteen. Obviously boys this age are enormously immature and don't know how to be a good boyfriend yet. Don't worry...you'll get into good relationships in due time.

 

Why does every girl i've been with do at least one of the following:

use me
cheat on me
break up with me
play me
hurt me

and then manage to blame me for all of the above


Nah, I dunno. Most people suck, just have to deal with it. Patience is a virtue, I suppose

 

you're only 15, the next 4 to 5 years are gonna be like this, might as well just roll with the punches.

 

Yep, 15 year old boys are a nightmare. How many are we talking by the way?

 

no you're 15 just wait lol

 

I so wish this were not true!

 

haha i can say this about all the women I've dated maybe its time to set our sights a little higher.....

 

You should just not settle. And from all the experience you seem to have with douchebag guys, you should pay attention to certain traits they have and look for those in future potential boyfriends. If they are in any way similar- don't date them. Also, don't fuck anyone you don't care about, because I see a lot of girls (not saying you do this necessarily) who have meaningless sex with many partners then complain they're being used. Live responsibly and learn from past experiences.

 

lol and then some. I know 26 yr olds that do that dumb shit.

Be patient, kid. the worst is not over.

 

Maybe you need to look at your choice in men. Sometimes the things that turn you on most when you meet a guy are the very same things that turn you off once you're in a relationship. And maybe that guy you think is a twerp/geek/whatever and wouldn't look twice at is the one who will treat you like gold.

 

Cause you're 15.

 

Listen carefully hun (OP):

At your age, boys are not looking for a real long-term relationship thing. They're like birds jumping from a branch to another. Girls mature faster than boys do, and are more emotional in general, and hence I can understand a girl your age looking for true love, feeling hurt when dumped...etc.

But at the same time, boys at this age are unstable, even when they initially think they are.

You, on your part, have two important things to do from now on:

1- Make sure of your choices. Give any relationship time to build love and trust without rushing into anything. If he loves you he will stick to you no matter what, trust me.

2- DON'T LET ANYONE USE YOU!!! In anyway. And no don't think that you're keeping them that way. You're actually losing them AND losing your self-respect. Cut it off with any jerk as soon as he shows any manipulative sign.

Take care, and be sure that you will meet a lotttt of really good boys who'd make you feel happy. Just don't chase love ever, because if you chase it it runs away. If you ignore it you find it coming to you on a plate of gold, but you have to actually ignore it, not pretend to. Ok?

 

ha


yeah its just that age...!! boys will always break your heart, or you'll break theirs.. its just how it goes. you'l be ok

 

You're 15. Guys are douchebags at that age. Especially older ones because a 15 year old to them is simply a tight **** who needs to be "taught". That doesn't mean YOU are a "****" - but that's where their minds are going to be, unfortunately.

Take it easy. You've got your whole life ahead of you.

Besides, after 15 or 16, everything that follows - overall - will be a walk in the park by comparison. A few bad bumps and bruises of course, but you'll be wiser, tougher and smarter.

And it goes so fast. I know that makes me sound old, but seriously...it does fly by.

 

Ah, somebody from my ancestor's land puts it so wise and tidy.