Why Do Some Men Crave More Than One Woman???

I wonder why some men crave more than one woman? Is it because of the freak in him? Do they require several different personalities to satisfy that sexual thrist? Is it that wifey is not doing her job?? Or is wifey to freaky and it turns him off?

And laides, what do you think motivates a man to want more than one woman? Are our minds closed to this subject, because it is too close to home or because we don't want to think about it? Is it too painful? Let's explore this subject.

What are your thoughts on this subject??

 

If they're ignorant and inconsiderate of others... that overrides, in my opinion, their needs.

 

who says it's just men? I could use a few boyfriends...

 

I agree with Moe.. Its not just men... Its women too...

 

Why? It's very simple, because when you've seen one you have not seen them all.

 

he is an assh*le.

 

IMO if a man or woman craves more than one partner, ok.........just be upfront about it! Nothing worse than someone who lies and decieves their partner. I mean, I just don't get the point of cheating......either be faithful or get the fuck out of the relationship......don't lie and cheat. Some people don't want to spend their lives or even their day with just one person....so long as all parties involved are ok with it and everyone is upfront and honest I think that's great. I however, am not one of those people

edit: but I do not agree with men who look at women as nothing more than sexual objects and conquests and use and abuse them and objectify them. i find that repulsing....

 

exactly...cheating is pointless and the only thing it achieves is making someone feel shitty and used

 

YESS!!

headymoe, i'm with ya

*giggles*

girls think about multiple partners, too.

 

Because its human nature. It's buried in a mans subconscious to pass his seed onto as many women as possible.

 

Really!!!...that's interesting..

 

Yes, I'm a guy and I agree with that.

Girls, why do you think you have only one egg at a time, while men have 200 million sperm produced everyday in their scrotum?

In fact, how filled our balls are determines a lot on how we feel. Just like females feels differently emotionally when they are on their periods. We feel different things, but nonetheless, are feelings can alter during those times.

For instance, you recognize after a guy cums, his penis automatically drops soon after and the urge to have sex goes away. Then when a guy doesn't have sex for awhile, the more filled his balls get, which emotionally makes him more horny.

Just because we feel horny towards a random girl we find attractive, it doesn't mean we start to love that random hot girl. We still love you and not her, but it doesn't mean we won't get turned on by that other girl. It's just that chemical reactions happens in our bodies especially with a full balls of cum waiting to be blown, just like a flower fully loaded with seeds ready for a wind to blow it so it can be released.

I wouldn't blame guys for this, but blame the one that created how our genetic makeup. If we were created with our seeds refilling only once a month, then we wouldn't feel horney as much, but since it fills everyday, we are just the way we are.

Now logically, we know we should not cheat, and respectful guys will not cheat, but you cannot stop our urges for something we find attractive. Again, just because we are attracted to a stranger, doesn't mean we love them or even try to sleep with them.

Guys with lots of options, and who haven't bought in to this propaganda of marriage and living happily ever after, will not settle for one girl unless that girl is amazing to him, but even that can turn boring, and the guy will move on. The reason why a lot of guys don't stray is because they are afraid they won't find someone better or can't. Or is settling for you cause just so happen they found you before they found someone else better. Because certain alpha males who can get a lot of females will not commit.

These alpha males, for instance, as long as they don't buy into traditional ways. And look at life as an open arena for all opportunities, and if they have respect for women also, they will tell the female that she is his main girl, maybe exclusive with her, but will never get married, because he made it clear that theirs a chance that if he finds someone better or has someone else, he will be sleeping with them also. An alpha male, with amazing looks or status or both in life that he will still get action despite them telling them all that. And their will be enough females that will want to stay with him so much, that they are willing to take this offer.

For instance, a rock star can get a lot of action, even if he doesn't commit to one girl. And why should he if he can get a lot. He may one day settle on one woman, but his options will stay open. And he knows to stay away from marriage, cause that will take away all of it. Now it's not impossible to get a guy like this for oneself, but it's very hard.

However, 99% of the guys in this world aren't, nore feel high enough to be alpha males in life, so most of them will get married or make a commitment to one girl, but still, they will have urges for other females.

Just my opinion.

 

OK, so if it is "engrained" in a man's subconscious to want as many women as possible, how do you explain women who don't wish to be monogamous-who want as many men as possible? (BTW, all these "evolutionary" theories only apply to straight men, it seems).

 

Women like this have sense enough to realize that men are right.

 

Well, not sure about wanting "as many" women as possible. It's just that if we find another woman attractive, whether it be 10 or 100, then we have urges. Most guys won't act on it though. We can't control our urges, but we do control our actions.

About women, I can't really talk about it because I'm not a woman. Maybe a woman on here that can relate can respond to that. But if I was to add my 2 cents, I think it has a lot to do, not only with genetics or biology, but influence, too. Just like men, women can be influenced a certain way. For instance, she sleeps with as many guys she finds attractive, just like how a guy can be influenced to shun his biological urges and stay with that one girl his entire life, and he even believes that's the best thing for him to do, not because his urges tell him to do that, but he's been bred that way.

There's a lot of porn stars or strippers that come from broken families and sexual violation in their pasts. Could this trigger something in which makes them more susceptible to sleeping with more men than other women? Maybe watching lots of soap operas or Desperate House wives or sex in the city or something. Or maybe women having a lot of sex partners could be a way to control the situations by initiating sex from guys, instead of being the other way around which could leave them more vulnerable. These are just theories though.

 

Oh please-It's now more Women now who cheat them Men who cheat-even worse most have one guy or even more as Emotioanl Dildos while they are banging all the biker types in Town. Thinking this is one sided Gender thing is pretty out dated!

 

Brown, why do nearly all of your posts make assumptions about an entire gender or group?

Its not just men, women cheat... all the time, probably for the same reasons. Men dont crave more as opposed to women, that simply is not true, because every personality is different reguardless of gender.

I don't see why all of these questions have to be about the fault of women or the fault of men... what about the fault of all humankind to be right arseholes to one
another?

We're never going to get even close to gender equallity if we constanlty make accusations and lay blame.

 

Okay I wanted to clear up my explanation a little....

When I said guys, okay me and I believe most guys anyways, are attracted to another random female, he "can" have urges. However, it doesn't mean I feel like wrapping myself around her leg and humping it, in fact, I won't feel horny at all, I'm too busy talking to them and trying to have a conversation. Or I'm doing something else with my life to even be thinking about the opposite sex.

However, single guys (some in relationships) would have sex if the female allowed it. But that rarely happens so most guys just don't think about it or expect it.

So women who know this can take advantage of a lot of guys by initiating sex with not only a guy who she's attracted to, but if she can get something from him, too. So women can be just as bad as a man using a female for sex for the same need or different needs.

And about men wanting to sleep with woman as opposed to a woman sleeping with men. A guy, well most guys I believe, can just find you attractive without knowing you at all and would sleep with you if you allowed it. However, for a woman, most of them I believe anyways, would need atleast to get to know the guy a little before sleeping with them. I just think most females want atleast some kind of emotional attachment before they sleep with a guy, while most guys wouldn't need that emotional attachment, they can just say, "Oh, she looks hot, I'd do her right now without even talking to her if she wanted to" Again, that rarely ever happens so we just don't expect it.

Just my opinion again. I'm no expert or anything.

 

Because I can. Why do you ask so many questions?

 

yeah okay... nice answer babe...