Why cant i cum?

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by BIGbxrz, Feb 14, 2008.

  1. BIGbxrz

    BIGbxrz Member

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    i am 14 years old and i was wondering why i can't cum? if u hav uggestions please post. like i will mastermate and nothing happens it feels like t wants to come out but it doent.
     
  2. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    14 years is no sure guarantee that you’ve achieved puberty, and are thus able to spread your seed and propagate.



    hotwater
     
  3. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    I can't come either, and I'm like 30!!!


    My latest fling said it's psychological. In MY case, not yours.
     
  4. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    you might not be fully ready to. also, if you're on medication, that may make it difficult.
     
  5. Jimmy P

    Jimmy P bastion of awesomeness

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    do you not ejaculate, or can't you orgasm at all? I didn't ejaculate when I first started whackin it
     
  6. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    there's always practice practice practice.
     
  7. ripple

    ripple Member

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    :agree:
     
  8. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    it sounds creepy, but it's true. and it's good for you, ultimately. better than unsafe sex and the pressure to perform before you get you thing down properly.
     
  9. ripple

    ripple Member

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    Nothing creepy about it man, get some practice in! Keep going at the point of pleasure, but not so far as to hurt anything...if still nothing happens then leave it a couple months :)
     
  10. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    well, a grown up explaining to a teenager to keep practicing isn't a real comfortable place. howeve,r how are you goin to know if there's something wrong if you try? still, it's a better way to go about it than just about anything else
     
  11. ripple

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    We were all young once. If you are worried about it that much go to the doctor :)
     
  12. Jimmy P

    Jimmy P bastion of awesomeness

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    you're a grown up?
     
  13. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    i'm not. i'm developmentally disabled.
     
  14. Pengilum

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    I dont remember when I started beating it. But I know the internet wasnt the place it was today.
     
  15. Drew_445

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    When I started masturbation there was no cum, then small trickles started, then it started shooting. :) Give it some time
     
  16. tutex

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    he should 4 shure be able to cum by now if ur on any meds thats probly it its called rouge ejaculation
     
  17. woodsman

    woodsman Senior Member

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    I'm 30 as well. I recently had this problem myself. In my case I waited till late in life to loose my virginity, and when the time came, I wasn't able to finish. it turns out it was just a psycological thing were I wasn't used to sex.

    My girlfriend was very supportive, and after a little while I was able to perform normally. Sometime it just takes some getting used to.

    idk what the circumstances are in your case, or if yours was anything like mine, but psycology seems to be a big factor on that sometimes.
     
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