I'm not trying to be confrontational and I really do want to understand. Why do men like to penetrate a nasty fecaly anus when there is a warm, creamy and soft vagina, full of pleasure nerve endings, just a couple of inches away. I mean, I can sort of understand why homosexual men might prefer anal sex (not really), so this question is for heterosexual men.
its a different and tighter feel from what i hear but i am a girl...and from my perspective it feels soooooooo much better than vaginal sex, then again we are all built differently.
Because it's kinkier and hotter and a more vulnerable area. And because I can cum in it without getting her pregnant =D
Not really! We might think differently and our life's experiences may be different, but we are all built basically the same. Vaginas have pleasure nerve endings and anuses do not.
I'm sure a feeling of powerful dominance has something to do with it as well. Personally I prefer to insert my little soldier into a mouth or vajayjay.
Instead of assuming "It's only men who enjoy this" You might want to ask the same Question to the ladies who have not only had great orgasms from Anal but in some cases even prefer it to Vaginal.
yes really! all vaginas and anuses lay at different angles and are different sizes... that's why different people like different positions etc... also, a lot of what goes on in sex, starts with the brain... we certainly all think differently wouldn't you say...
yes all bodies are built differently and all nerves are spread out differently in differnt bodies i feel infinitely more pleasure from being pounded in the ass than i do when my pussy gets fucked. yes i feel pleasure in both, but my predominant pleasure spots are in my ass not all girls are like this do you want more proof that all bodies are built differntly? well different girls get off harder in different positions. that's because their nerves are in different places we don't all have the same taste buds or smells or even color vision why would you assume all our nerve endings are located in the same part of the body for everyone?
exactly, else we wouldn't ever like people for their intelligence etc, evolution wouldn't have got us this 'far' if it was all about nerve endings x
I can say to the OP that my ex insisted on it. In fact, she would often bleed from vaginal sex (I'm pretty large) but with anal would bang away having squirting orgasms without a care in the world.....
Actually there are pleasure nerve endings in anus. Actually there is one that can put you into a trance. My fiancee has longer and stronger orgasms when I fuck her ass. There are a million reasons that I like it better. There is the taboo aspect, the fact that I can bareback her without getting her pregnant, there is more communication when you are doing it, it forces me to slow down a little, she talks about me actually hitting her g spot through the back wall of her vaj, there is also something about the way the muscles push slightly against the insertion which feels amazing etc. When you assume it makes an ass out of you and me. Peace Out, Rev J
Well, I am a bi man who has never done a woman in the ass, while having done numerous men. My thots were as the OP as to butt fucking women, but fact is my wife of many years was not into taking anal. Also no girls ever volunteered to be fucked analy but I would have if that's what they wanted. Now the guys really liked it and for the most part it is not shitty. (OK, one left shit behind my head, which was kinda gross cleaning up. :ack2: ). I actually am a very oral person tho.
From the male receiving end, this allows direct stimulation to the prostate gland, which can result in extremely powerful orgasms indeed. I am also led to understand that in the female anus this can also lead to stimulation of the G Spot - often refereed to as the Female Prostate - resulting in similar orgasms. As far as the giver is concerned, well, the difference is fairly obvious - the sphincter is much tighter than the vagina. All men will be fully aware of the different sensations of masturbating with a loose grip to masturbating with a firm grip, and even if he chooses to use a loose grip, as he approaches climax it requires much more will power to keep it loose, as a tighter grip becomes essential, thus increasing the level of stimulation for maximum pleasure. This is like the physical difference between Anal & Vaginal sex. However, putting the physical reasons aside, as we are all aware, 90% of the pleasure achieved from any sex act is psychological, and in many cases it is simply the fact of committing what is still often regarded as a taboo act that can be so stimulating.
Pine man is right it comes down to how tight the ass is compared to the vagina and psychological excitation of fucking a woman in her butt. The first time I fucked a girl in the ass it was a psychologically exhilarating almost overwhelming experience because I really really like women's asses and the idea of getting inside a woman's ass gets me very aroused. The tightness was something that instantly caught my attention, it's like a vice in there. I couldn't believe how tight the ass was when I stuck it in there. The ass is not dirty if it's clean. Remember the mouth is filled with TONS of bacteria and I'm sure you're not against blow jobs. I wouldn't want to fuck a girl with a dirty ass no more than I would want to have vaginal during a woman's period or getting a blow job from a girl with morning breath. Guys like anal because it feels good and they can cum in there without getting pregnant as well, the visual is also amazing nothing like watching your cock disappear between those big buns right into that tight ass hole.
There's an old joke about that. 1. It's warmer 2. It's tighter 3. It's more degrading to women! I can personally vouch for the first two, but the truth is, I appreciate and respect up-the-butt girls, who do so willingly and joyfully. I married one (til death did we part), and am working on another one! Oh, and it washes off. I good soapy shower afterwards is a good idea anyway.
Are you an idiot? "But we are all built basically the same." Thats like saying everyones finger print is the same. There are indeed nerve endings in everyones anus. You just have to take the time to figure out if one is willing to experiment with anal play in order to find out what feels good and what doesn't. I'm a huge anal guy. My gf will do anything I ask to my anus. The only time I can have a full blown body spasming orgasm is from a huge dildo vibrating my prostate. We are working on anal sex with her but it will be a big hurdle because she has such a small anal opening with an extremely low pain tollerance and my penis has a 6 inch circumfrence.... It doesn't mix very well but once it does happen and we are going to have full blown anal sex I believe I will be able to hit some of her nerve endings which will give her a whole different orgasm to experience.
Because fucking a girl's ass is dirty and kinky because perhaps the asshole was not meant to be sodomized, or so society assumes. David Garnder once said that that only sex that is unnatural is that which you cannot perform. I love the backdoor because of its tight, round opening, and when the glans of the penis thrusts in and out, the anus gives a thrilling pop sound. Who cares about fecal matter? Just keep going at it. If the girl is horny enough to pull out and suck it off even if it's brown, she'll get marriage proposals from every man she did it to.
