Who is Looking For Love?

Seriously, they say there are like a billion people on this earth.. yet it feels like there are more depressed people in this world and more people looking for love.. I know I'm lacking in that department.. I miss it, the whole feeling and vibe of being connected with someone.. I just wish it was easier, but nothing is easy. I guess I'm just in a negative vibe where it's not easy to get out of it.. Just seems like everything around me is lovey-dovey, happiness and I'm here alone in a crowded room..

 

I know how you feel, I'm in the same boat. But, it will all get better sometime soon. Right?

 

true that.. people suck.. and then you see the people completely asses and jerks and what not, and have a relationship that they take for granted and just makes me sick that someone find them remotely interesting to go out with.. this world is so weird sometimes..

 

Yeah, you do seem like a nice guy ..i feel for ya man.

I`m a nice lass ..yet can`t demonstrate this.
We`re all doomed.

 

I dont know what to tell u zeppelin, i look to meet people and get nowhere while other people jump from one relationship to the next like instantly. The girls i try to get to know are usually not worth my time. I talked to this girl at school and said id like to be better friends and she said yeah and to talk to her in the cafeteria on friday ,but she hasnt been around since she said that. I talked to her a few times before that but oh well. Im not bad looking or bad personality but people i try to meet are either conceited , rude, too judgmental or whatever i dont know??

 

Same here, same here

 

I think there's something to be said for loving yourself (er...u know what i mean!)
I think if you really get-off on yourself (this is coming out all wrong) and if you have a slow hand - (no, only joking!)
Sometimes I am more in touch with myself when I am not in a relationship.
I really feel sensual and rich and abundant and expanded, and not in a sexual way, but more in a Beingness way.
Sometimes I feel like some people actually 'reduce' me in a way. But when its only me, I am just groovin and blissful.
I can stretch out in the whole bed, without hanging off the edge or trying to pull back a tiny bit of the covers to stop my bottom from freezing off!
I can lay on all the pillows. I can lie diagonally if I damn well feel like it. Ah, the Bliss of it all.
And then, when I am right back to being the Glorious I Am, I go right ahead and invite someone else to share the groove with me. I can't help it. I'm just a loved-up hippy mamma who wants to take the whole world inside to my tantric nirvana (I wish)...Anyway...all I meant to say was -if you love yourself it can be contagious!

 

Well said!

 

The reason you dont have a girlfriend is because you think that everyone who disagrees with you, hates you. Its because you think people who dont love you are fucked up, and becuase you think the whole world should live and conform to your ideals.

You also believe you're a nice guy, all evidence I have seen is contrary to this notion

 

Thought I had found love twice in my lifetime...boy was I wrong. For now I'll settle for being friends and I'll take all the friends I can get.

 

yep I think we are all awesome people and that "we know " but having that vibe around you is far and inbetween. thats why we go to festys and hang out on an internet messageboard just to get a touch of "the vibe" from other people that "know". I think we all live too far apart and theres too many shitheads inbetween!! so along story short im single also :sunglasse, keeping my sights high for a chicky that loves herself and loves life. Thats hard to come by.

 

I'm going to have say I am definitely not looking.

 

why bother wanting something i can never have.

 

that makes you an artist.

 

Retro im going to have to disagree with you. It seems to me that everything is handed to you or down to you. Most pretty girls get whatever the hell they want in life , im sorry but the same cant be said for goodlooking guys. Even an ugly girl can go to a bar and meet some guy but the same cant be said for a guy. Women that are in clubs/bars are said to be expecting a guy to ask them out ..etc so they are on guard. Girls can usually pick who they want to date but its not true for guys. Some girls use excuses like my bf wont like us even being a friends, how many times do u think a guy would say that?

 

Excuse me man, but I by no means have everything handed to me. I dont get whatever the hell I want in life, I have to work damn hard to achieve things I want, and to achieve the acceptance of others. Your assumption suggests that looks are the only winning factor in a person, and that is not true. You think my life is any more of a fucking breeze than any body elses? I sure as hell promise you it isn't.

Besides, every supposed 'benefit' in life certainly has its pitfalls

 

LOVE IS A SHAM, i thought i found it only to end up feeling a fool!!!!! It is an illusion!!!!!

 

id hafta agree wit funky. One other animal in the world feels love, i think its just a human emotion that was made by the greetin card companies to sell cards.

 

not me. i'm full of hatred, insecurity and heartbroken....not very good company.

 

love is a biologically programmed psychological condition which promotes the production and rearing of children