Which do you prefer?

Which do you prefer?

Getting in bed with your partner and cuddling/snuggling up

or

Having sex (without a bed, or cuddling).

I think I slightly prefer the bed one, personally.

 

yeah, cuddling is so niiiiiiiiiiice. Can I be greedy though and choose cuddling that leads to sex? And that is followed by drifting off whle still snuggled?

dammit...I miss my boyfriend. Damn long distance, Damn it

 

crazy as it is for me being a guy, I love to cuddle (with my girl, not a fling). I enjoy having sex then after holding on to her. Sex is so intense for her sometimes I can hold her right after because she has to breath and wind down.

 

Ooooo, yea, I LOVE that, too......

 

Well I am the SOLE person who voted SEX only...

Because I would prefer the sex on the floor or shower or against a wall, and then Im too awake for cuddling, I get ancy...

I do enjoy cuddling, but if I had to choose, right now, I would pin her up against our bedroom wall and feel myself trying to push through her cervix...

Man, I HATE being deployed... The second time we had sex I would cuddle her till she got horny again (it always happens) and that is the BEST SEX... we both fall asleep after our third time, so I don't mind cuddling then...

Right now, god DAMN I need a good release... she told me shes afraid I might hurt her when I get home, so she asked if she should already be lubed and expect a pounding...

Man I love her!!!!!!

 

Cuddles bring you closer to a person and in return result in better sex. I vote cuddles

 

I'd choose cuddling, definitely.

 

I like...

 

bed and cuddling

 

...same here. My girl loves spooning nekkid with me. I loooove the feel of her in my arms, smelling her hair, feeling her breathe next to me. We spend hours in bed on the weekends just like that...something so loving and intimate about it. I'm getting really horny just thinking about it!

 

Cuddling in bed can lasy for hours and hours..

You can say things when in each other's embrace that you can't say during sex. Feel a warmth and comfort that you don't get to feel anywhere else in the house..

And even in silence, there's a connection you get. A bonding that's hard to break away from. Unlike sex..

 

usually cuddling
but right about now, sex sounds perfect

 

bed and cuddling ... *sighs*
and anything else that happens before or after...

 

both.

 

I like both.. call me greedy, first bed, then snuggle, then sex then nap, the more snuggling then sex again...

 

Theoretically then, a teddy bear with genitals should do most of us.

 

i would like to snuggle, but it would end up with my hands on her tits and ass me having a hard on, i would have to fuck to get rid of it!

 

Usually my boyfriend and I have fantastic, rough hard sex, and then we cuddle up and relax. He is super cuddly after sex. I love it.

 

Sex. Outside of the bedroom, preferably.

 

Somebody chose 'don't like either'.
To each their own I suppose...

But back on topic... I'm a cuddler. Naked cuddling preferred. There's just something about bare flesh pressing together in a warm, affectionate way... Ahhh... It's gonna be a cold night alone tonight now that I think of it....