When did men start to expect

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by Peace Attack, Apr 16, 2005.

  1. Peace Attack

    Peace Attack Make War

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    A shaved vagina? It's so retarded when you think about it.
    "I'll go through a unpleasant and typically painful process so I can look like a prepubesant girl because a man or society find pubic hair unnacceptable."

    I know some women prefer a smooth hairless body and thats fine. But many girls do it because it's expected of them, this freakish new trend.
     
  2. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    I've never expected it nor been a fan of it actually, either way its not that big of a deal to me. If a girl wants to shave because its her preference, I'm not going to object as its her body - but being completely hairless down there seems unnatural to me.
     
  3. Peace Attack

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    It's really wierd, I cant get over it.

    Why shouldn't I have hair down there. I'm not a child, I've earned these.
    I am a woman now.
     
  4. Super_Grrl

    Super_Grrl Crazy love

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    Personally I hate body hair lol so yah I'm a shaver. BUT I don't think a woman should do it because it's "expected" of her...if she wants to (like I do) then no problem. But if she's doing it (or anything else for that matter) because she thinks she has to in order to keep him, then that's uncool.
     
  5. Small_Brown

    Small_Brown Senior Member

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    Guys never expected women to shave, well decent ones anyway. The media portrays a clean shaven private area as sexy, and "the thing to do". So women just go along with it, expecting all men to want it. I for one HATE it. Hair makes you look distinguished and mature. Clean shaven just looks so "out of place" if you will. I actually find it kind of a turn off, but thats just me.

    Some women just prefer it, like Super_Grrl.
     
  6. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    i think guys want it trimmed so they can see the goods not just hair and to avoid getting hair in the teeth.
     
  7. ihmurria

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    well, I do it because I think it looks better (I don't shave everythign either, just by the labia, still leave a patch on top so it's obvious I've hit puberty). I do prefer guys shaved though, and have asked one of my two partners to try shaving once. Much less scratchy with both parties shaved.
     
  8. Peace Attack

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    Trimmed is good. There is just something unsettleing about a clean shaven vagina. Why would he want to have sex with a little girl?

    creepy.
     
  9. Small_Brown

    Small_Brown Senior Member

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    I concur wholeheartedly..trimmed is thumbs up in my view!:)
     
  10. WayfaringStranger

    WayfaringStranger Corporate Slave #34

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    i think your rollin with the wrong guys. i dont think most guys expect that. it might be nice, i dunno, but the only thing i expect from a woman . .. well i guess ive learned not to expect anything
     
  11. Amanda's Shadow

    Amanda's Shadow Flower Child

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    My ex said something like "I hate when girls have hair down there when we were watching a movie with nudity and a girl had a "landing strip" lol. I just ignored him. We hadnt done anything like that. But I wasnt going to after he said that. I trim and sometimes shave, but I hate stubble, and I would never shave it all or Id feel like a pre-pubescent porn star.

    I dont get why people today are so ashamed of being mammals.
     
  12. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    I disagree with ya ihmurria, I've been with a shaved guy and it was so goddamn scrtachy and it gave me a sorta shaving rash from all the prickles and friction :(
     
  13. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    *shrug* both shaved felt better than just me shaved with that guy, just my experience is all.
     
  14. wonderboy841

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    Please don't knock it before you try it. I perfer a woman that is shavn down there. It so much smoother and my girl likes it too. There is a technique to shaving it so its not all prickly, or getting a better razor. I did encounter a shaved and unshaven vagina. I would really have to go with shaven. I really think its unattractive and less convienent. Yes you can move it to the side. Its just one less thing you have to worry about. I personally shave down there also. Once you shave it for a period of time the itch goes away and the in grown hairs slowly dissapear because you learn which way and not the way to shave. But i would put all my marbles on shaven. Women have a beautiful thing and it doesn't need to be hidden. And men don't be afraid to shave either. Have fun doing what you do.
     
  15. SilverClover14

    SilverClover14 Senior Member

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    I'm kind of in a weird position because I prefer shaving because it feels better to me but my boyfriend prefers natural. He lets me do whatever I want and doesn't make a big deal out of it, however.

    It's really just preferance...I'm going to shave regardless of whether or not my partner approves. That's just me and what I find appealing, and no man is going to change my habits.
     
  16. crummyrummy

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    i hate shaving. but I do love a clean shaven woman. I cant explain it.
     
  17. Super_Grrl

    Super_Grrl Crazy love

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    Perfect. I mean, it's your body, right?? Personally I actually *cleaner* when my labia is shaved, especially with my period. No, I'm not saying girls who don't shave are dirty, I'm just saying that I personally feel cleaner. And yes (I forget who said it) there is a knack involved, and eventually you figure out how to do it so that it's not prickly, but really really smooth. There's also other options, of course, like Nair - that stuff's not too bad.
     
  18. crummyrummy

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    I smell bad often.
     
  19. Peace Attack

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    It's alright, most of us don't mind.
     
  20. crummyrummy

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    most dont smell bad?
     
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