When did it become okay for men

to be soooo dependent on their parents and feel like they are owed everything in the world. I am not talking about teenagers. I am talking about 20-something year-old men who act like 10-year-olds. I was even with a 30-year-old who felt like his dad owed him money.
When did this become okay and what kind of women do they end up marrying?
I am fed-up with people in this world who just take in general, but this whole grown man dependency thing has me baffled.

 

I know soooo many guys like this for example my brother and his friends. He is 25 and has never had a job.

 

that is fucking ridiculous and then they get pissed when we date older men

 

Hate to break the news but, men do not have a monopoly on this type of behavior.

 

call me traditional, but I think it's a bit more acceptable for women. I know most people I have dated like that I live at home instead of with wild female or male roomates or alone. They don't have to worry as much. I don't take anyone or anything for granted though and I do not feel like I deserve it just because I was born.

 

Yeah, men suck, don't they? Only good for making love and their money. LOL

 

yeah...that's exactly what I meant because I am really that shallow and not capable of loving anyone or wanting to make them happy
men don't suck, men who act like little boys do.

 

You ladies know a bunch of idiots.

 

Tat not nice, mama..we can't help it. You know like leaving the potty seat up. LOL You know most of us let her best friend do the thinking for us. Good thing I don't.. I would have kids everywhere.

 

I have no prob putting the toliet seat down, unless there are people coming over. Leaving the toliet seat up does not bother me in the least.

 

You can really tell me guys reactions what really bothers them and it seems that this does. If a guy wants to drive a nice car and live in nice house and go to clubs and drunk and buy nice clothes they should have to pay for it themselves not rely on Mommy and Daddy to do it for them. I know a lot more males and females that this applies too. Don't get me wrong I do know girls that are in there mid to late 20's that still live with their parents but most of the do so because they don't want roommates and don't want to live alone but they work and pay for most things like their care, clothes and fun stuff themselves.

 

It's because they know it's wrong and want to justify it. I like guys with a lot of pride. Last night I was talking with my bf and he seemed a bit bothered that my mom offered to pay for my wedding dress, get us a designer dog for a gift and anything we regestered for since we're having a private wedding. I liked that he was a bit irritated by this and didn't see it as normal. But I am still accepting the dress, the puggle and what we regester for! If it affects his ego I can make sure I more than make up for that on the honeymoon

 

my guy is the same way it bothers him if my parents pay when we go out to eat together.

 

Awe you have a good one

 

ya he's a keeper

 

haha in general men feel that b/c in the olden days they used to do all the work and take care of women,they should be taken care of now.
They marry their suga mama's and they live happily ever after until he cheats on her and she finds out.
Men feel like in this day and age they should take the role of the women..

And its fine by me as long as my bf doesnt start acting like that.

 

so am I a shit head if I ask my mom to help on rent every 4 or 5 months or ask for a little food donation once a month?

Outside of the US it is quite common. for instance, plenty of French folks I know live with their parents till early to mid 20s, even late 20s. It makes sense for your parents to support you as long as you make strives to be independent. which is what I do, but I still need a little help until I graduate and can rid myself of student debt.

sorry lyns, I am not a dead beat cause I depend on my parents a lil now and than. I am a good guy trying to make it in this world while trying to love who is around me.

 

We are talking about guys who make no strive for anything. They just expect things to be given to them. I think you are doing a good job trying.

 

I was in no way talking about guys like you-at all. From your posts you sound like you are a wonderful son and a wonderful boyfriend.

 

guys like me