How did you come about opening up your relationship to having sex with others? My spouse and I discussed our failing sex life due to her medical issues. The result was that if I were to have sex with other women she would hope I would remain with her. Basically giving me that proverbial hall pass and long as I always returned to my home room after I explored the halls. Since then I have had many sex partners, all women, and live a very active and fulfilling sex life. So tell us. What's Your Story?
For us mainly because I traveled for my job and was away from home often. This while we lived together. before we married. She knew I was seeing other women, and she said she wanted other men.
This may seem repetitive from my other posts, but you asked. When I was married to my now ex-wife, I had this crazy fantasy that she should become a “hot wife”. Reluctant at first, but when the right guy came along, she went for it. For 6 months. Didn’t matter if I was home, or out of town. But she was adamant that I could not get any “ strange”. WTH. Same with my current wife. we both had MFM fantasies, which we consummated. Even though we were fine with her having sex with her friend, there was no way on God’s green earth that she would consent to having a FMF, or me getting anything extra. WTH? I guess she was cucking me. It was fun while it lasted….. been years ago.
When we started dating I thought my wife was still very a novice when it came to sex. Then one night she told me about her BFF and BFF boyfriend walking in on her having a ONS. Her legs were “trapped” on the guys shoulder at the time. She said the guy started “going wild” when he saw her friends watching them. (I’m guessing “going wild” is a euphemism for “fucking her hard and fast”). The friends got so excited they started having sex too. She said the night ended with all four of them having sex on a small twin bed. The guys were trying to outdo each other. Year later I told her how much I loved that story. It made my imagination go wild. I wish I was there to watch the whole thing. That story eventually led us into opening our marriage.
We played early on. At first we just fucked in front of others at parties because we were young, horny, and under the influence. After we married young, we played with a couple of couples our age. I also fucked several of her friends who were wanting my services - usually while she watched and waited her turn. During the child planning and early raising years (about 15 years) we didn’t play at all. Now we’re back at it and play with several other couples on a regular basis.