Since we all like to play with ourselves, so besides using your hand, what else do you use to get yourself off? I like using a fleshlight to get myself off. I have one that vibrates and I like lubing it up, putting on some hot porn and edging myself until I have a monster orgasm.
I agree. My right hand and lube is always quick and available. Fleshlight is great when I have enough alone time to heat and lube it up. Preferably when my wife is out of town on business or a girlfriend weekend. Mine does not vibrate, but I don’t need it to. Put on some mood specific porn, and have fun. The downside to the Fleshlight is the prep and the cleanup. Also, depending on my mood, I have a nice life like dildo, vibrator, or a prostate massager. Still looking for that elusive prostate orgasm.
I have been trying for years, have not had one, I’ve pretty much given up. The feeling of prostate stimulation is great, gets me rock hard, then my cock twitches and the milk starts oozing out, which is great. Then after the milk is done the sensation greatly reduces and I get soft, then I’m pretty much done.
Mine is a black dildo for anal and prostate stimulation. No prostate orgasm here either, but some nice drips of cum, when hitting to a right spot. Also uncontrollable whole body shakes, which can last 10-20 seconds each.
Those body shakes kind of sound like a prostate orgasm, they don’t always lead to ejaculation they often are just waves of pleasure.
Wow, nice to hear. My shaky moments follow each other almost so long as I continue stimulation. Is this normal?
From what I have read yes, you can have multiple prostate orgasms for as long as you can take them. I have also read that once you find the spot they are easier to achieve once you learn how to hit the spot just right. I also have heard that once you get used to them, as they are overwhelming, you can learn to control the waves and ride them out for long duration. I am jealous
I've waited for the endless stream of cum and been frustrated not to have one. But now I think I'll focus more to my dry orgasms. They certainly feel even much better, if I learn be more relaxed, when I feel the first waves coming. So far I haven't been able to enjoy those body shakes, because my pelvic floor goes too tense. It starts to feel like "too much" and I have to stop and stay still with dildo deep in my ass. After a while I can continue moving, but the best pleasure was gone already. All this will be repeated again and again, until my ass gets too sense and I have to stop.
I also invested in a prostate massage, but so far no orgasms. I only get to use it when the wife is out of the house. She knows I bought it and she tells me to use it as long as she is not around. I generally lube up and stroke for about 10 minutes with my massager on vibrate but so far no prostate orgasm. Sometimes I will get a dry cum from my cock.
Reading about the body shakes got me remembering an incident a couple months ago. This wasn't a prostate orgasm, but sure gave me the shakes and a dry orgasm. I was in the shower and I always put the shower to the handheld nozzle and put it on hardest narrow spray and send it right to the tip of my penis and underneath to my asshole. I usually get my self all worked up and then I soap up and jerk off. But this one day I put the water to the tip of my penis and man oh man did it send me flaying high. I kept it angled just right and the feeling got stronger and stronger. It got so intense that I had to put my arm up on the side of the shower and let my backside lean up against the other side just to keep myself upright. I never came but boy did I ever orgasm. At that point I realized that I had a dry orgasm. I had always heard you could have an orgasm without cumming but I always thought it was a myth. It isn't. I couldn't believe it. I was so taken aback that I went right out of the shower and out into the family room and told my wife. I told her, honey, you won't believe what just happened? And proceeded to tell her what just happened. She just said yes that can happen. I have been trying to replicate it ever since. No luck. I guess it is like that runners high. I only found it once on one run. Never found it again. :-(
I have had similar experiences, and like you they are not consistent. When it hits just right I get great orgasms down to my toes. Like you my cock twitches but I do not cum, but is for sure is a great wave to ride, it’s surprising how exhausting it it, like whew that was great but now I need a minute to catch my breath. I too have not had this happen often, only twice, but I try almost every day
Other than the usual wanking I also use a bodywand vibrator which is pretty good if I don't overuse it. Too much use and it tends to desensitise the area. I have a fleshlight but I don't use it often. I also have another cock sleeve that feels better than the fleshlight tbh but I don't use it often. Creates an amazing orgasm though.
My penis loves my hands so much and hasn’t been interested in trying anything else. It’s a long and intimate relationship between both of them…
Mine is my 8 inch rubber cock with a suction cup which i donr get to slide up me very often. A newly acquired prostate massager is getting some use.
I've been wanting to get a cockring with a butt plug/prostate tool. Anyone use these? What do you say?
I have one similar to this. It has a cock and Ball silicone ring with a stainless plug that is about five inches long and slender.