What's the point? :(

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by Aizea, Jan 6, 2009.

  1. Aizea

    Aizea Guest

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    Seriously, what's the point of living as a female? We're weaker than men, mentally and physically. Our hormones keep us from thinking clearly. Sex causes us to get fat for 9 months and then pop out a screaming baby that we have to take care of for the rest of our lives. Unlike daddy who can come home, play with it, then go to sleep. We have to do everything. We're expected to cook, to please men, to have a successful career, or pop out babies. We have to be hairless, whereas men don't. We ned to spend hundreds on beauty products and men don't do much but take a shower. Our clothing is outrageously expensive, uncomfortable, not to mention our shoes and bras! If I want to fight for my country, I can't. I'm expected to marry some military guy and have his god damn mutant kids. What the hell is the point of this? Is it no wonder that so many women are depressed? How can you be happy? I don't understand how any of my girlfriends can be happy with their lives. I'm extremely miserable, hopeless and don't even care about the future anymore. I mean... Seriously, fuck it. I'm a very pretty girl, and I get no respect because of it. People always are falling in love with me, and like me for my exterior before they even get to know me! I can't have male friends because they all want to date me, when I'd rather just have a buddy to hang out with. No one sees me, just another pretty girl. I just feel so hopeless and trapped ._.
     
  2. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    I know your a troll simply because of this one line, what the hell are you talking about that we aren't allowed to fight? I got a package from the army the other day, they welcome women just the same as men. There are plenty of women in afganistan and iraq.


    Your going to have a very pathetic sad life until you realise that we may never be the same as men, but that doesn't mean for one second that we aren't equal to them.
     
  3. mmg

    mmg fish out of water

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    blah blah blah, u suck. i wouldn't date you, you're a whiner.
     
  4. Aizea

    Aizea Guest

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    I don't want to date. And I don't know what you mean by troll. I came here because I was looking for women could show me there was a reason being a girl was at all wonderful. And thus far, it looks like it isn't. They aren't very nice to each other either it seems. There are women in the military, but they aren't doing combat jobs, at least in the United States, elsewhere yes, but not here.
     
  5. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    If the main reason that you hate being a woman is because you aren't allowed to kill someone overseas thats pretty lame.
     
  6. Aizea

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    Sigh. That isn't the main reason. I have listed numerous. I don't know why everyone is focusing on that one.
     
  7. sarahrei

    sarahrei ~Lover~

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    Because all of your reasons are BS. If you were a chick and this was around the time that we couldn't vote then maybe I would listen to you but your just whining about nothing. The only reason why your weak and unhappy is because your weak as a person. I'm a girl and I have plenty of men in my life who don't earn as much as me, who aren't as smart as me and that are in worse shape then me.

    If your a stupid, weak, baby poppin, stay at home mama whiney little bitch it's because you want to be, not because you have to be.
     
  8. Fuuunia

    Fuuunia Members

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    Who told you we were weaker than men, mentally and physically??? Physically, maybe, but mentally? Look, there were more women than men who survived the concentration camps because they were much stronger - mentally. They were able to help each other, to think about anything but their suffering. It's not a fairy tale, it's true. There were many books written on this topic.

    You can't be sure you're weaker or stronger till you get into some kind of a marginal situation.

    Stop blaming your gender for being sad or depressed or desperate or whatever. :)
     
  9. Luxiebow

    Luxiebow Senior Member

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    this is ridiculous, not all men are stonger than women! I'm a strong woman! blame yourself for being weak and pathetic not your sex!
     
  10. opel diamond

    opel diamond burn out

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    most of what u said is complete rubbish. ok being a woman can some times have its negatives i would agree, but we can be just as mentally strong as men are sometimes a lot more so. its a completley individual case by case bases as to how strong a person mentally is. my friend who was male commited suicide at 21 and his sister is still alive and happy and they both went thru the same traumatic experiences, so its simply a question of coping with that. and if u want to join the military, do it. you can, so u cant be an infantry soldier, my boyfriends not an infantry soilder but hes been in the firing line of things, if thats wat u want! and spending hundreds of pounds on make up is again ur own personal choice, i wear a bit of eye liner and some mascara and thats it, doesnt cost the earth and i like to wear it, sometimes i dont wear any make up at all. if u r pretty as u say u cud probably not have to wear any makeup. and i pretty much agree with what everyone else has said....whining about being a woman is probably one of the biggest stereotypes going. :tongue:
     
  11. MaryJBlaze

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    I call bullshit too, no woman in north america is restricted to any type of lifestyle....if you want a different life, it's yours for the taking....grow a pair of balls (haha) and get out there and take it:cheers2:
     
  12. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    i'd love to see a man push an eight pound human out of his crotch with no pain meds and not cry like a big sissy!
     
  13. verseau_miracle

    verseau_miracle Banned

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    :troll::troll::troll:
     
  14. Mother's Love

    Mother's Love Generalist

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    no kidding!
    1. a troll is someone who posts stupidity in order to get a reaction and/ or waste the time of others. from the wiki:
    "An Internet troll, or simply troll in Internet slang, is someone who posts controversial, inflammatory, irrelevant or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum or chat room, with the intention of provoking other users into an emotional response[1] or to generally disrupt normal on-topic discussion.[2]"

    even if you are not a troll, you spout complete drivel. as an added bonus, you have no age posted, and you only have 3 posts, marking you as a prime troll suspect.

    a woman has the creative power of the cosmos locked in her belly and mind. that is what makes us stronger than men. you can have muscles, but do you have the courage to run into a flaming home to save a crying infant? without gear? even one who is not your own? the bravery to go on living after scattering a child's ashes to the wind?
    what you are experiencing is the christian deadly sin of sloth. apathy, sadness, depression. not that i think its a sin, but it is disruptive.
    "oh woe is me because i don't have a penis. "

    PS, they can fix that for you now. they can pump you so full of testosterone you think you were always a penis, and they can stick a fake one on for you too. get over yourself. please. you're embarrassing me. i hope you turn out to be a guy, because a guy behaving that way is to be expected.
     
  15. Aizea

    Aizea Guest

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    Thanks for your help.
     
  16. Angel86

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    You keep saying that "we have to" do this or "we have to" do that when shaving or having babies is truly YOUR choice.
     
  17. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    amen.
     
  18. TheMadcapSyd

    TheMadcapSyd Titanic's captain, yo!

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    oh god where's Freud where you need him

    Men and women are equal, obviously we do some stuff better then the other, hence why we work best when together.

    We both have our pros and cons, like yes women can't be in combat roles, but men through all of history have been used as cannon fodder for wars

    Women are pressured to shave their legs and pits, men are pressured to shave their face, legs and pits take more time, face is hard to hide and shit on your face takes forever to stop bleeding when you nick it.

    Bigger physically yes, but generally it's true for both men and women that men prefer women to be smaller and women prefer their man to be bigger

    Mentally weaker though, women aren't mentally weaker, but they aren't stronger either.

    and yes, men do take alot of interest in the physical attributes of women, but at the same time that gives women a ridiculous amount of sexual power over men.

    As for babies, well that part is an awesome plus in the fact we can have a kid without actually having to give birth to it. But we don't just don't come home and play with our kids and put them to bed. I think generally men and women based on how they think and their senses of humor have different approaches to raising children, which I will now address with comedy!
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SP1kKcZtnkQ

    but when dad sees the same child trying to put a penny into the light socket he thinks, wait wait wait......"well go on", bzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Yea I know it hurt it shot your ass like 8 feet, bet you won't do that again. yes your eyebrows will grow back
     
  19. BlazingDervish

    BlazingDervish Banned

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    Fixed. :hat:

    Internal Nads FTW.
     
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