What do you do if you’re married to a great woman and you want to try something different sexually?? My fantasy is to try giving head. I can’t tell her about it it’s just not an option. Do I just do it and not say anything or keep it as a fantasy???
You have already fulfilled your fantasy so you should have no ethical issues with this. Just keep it to yourself and if ever discovered face the consequences presented. The choice is yours.
That would depend upon your level of integrity. Relationships corrode in the presence of dishonesty, secrecy, and subterfuge.
If you are married and have a good relationship talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and that it is a fantasy you want to do with her and her alone. Open communication is the key to a good relationship. She may surprise you with her answer. Just be honest