What to do when partner isnt into mutual masturbation?

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by DestinedJenna, Nov 26, 2025.

  1. DestinedJenna

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    Its been months and no budging no wanting discuss it doesnt even want to talk about it.
     
  2. jimandjan

    jimandjan Member

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    Well, I would go ahead and please myself.
     
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  3. KDaddy23

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    So would I. Would be nice if we could do it together but...
     
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  4. Michael1985

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    You're gonna have to do it on your own, as underwhelming as that may seem. Hopefully, you'll find some way to spice it up and enhance the experience.
     
  5. JoCose64

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    That sounds disappointing. I hope a little more time and patience leads to a change in attitude for the better.
     
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  6. 6Sailor9

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    :-(…guess you have to take it in your own hands ;-)
     
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  7. Roger Sullivan

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    If someone wanted to masturbate with me I wouldnt need asking twice. I love it. I do it with a mate.
     
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  8. Curiouscouple2469

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    Oh DJ, you have us all wanting to help you
    Out. I am sure you could find plenty of willing 2nds to enjoy a mutual round with you.

    I know I for one am in a similar situation where the opportunity to share has been met with disinterest as of late… it’s a shame we can’t form a support group for those of us aching to share with no one there… I think it’s a sensible approach to manage our sex drive imbalances.
     
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  9. Michael1985

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    The OP is much too young for me to find her sexually arousing and wanting to help, but I do find her openness about the subject refreshing because there are so few women posting in this section. :)
     
  10. Roger Sullivan

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    Wow. Unbelievable. I can think of nothing more horny than wanking off in the company of others.
     
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  11. Piobaire

    Piobaire Village Idiot

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    I'd suggest acquiring a selection of "power tools".
     
  12. stilllikeit

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    I don’t put it down, but putting my own way of thinking, maybe he prefers doing it to each other instead of both of you to your ownselves
    Wondering …
     
  13. Bjgirl

    Bjgirl I’m just having fun!

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    Time to go Toy shopping
     
  14. CammyCums

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    Perhaps if you start in front of him he'll join in and realize just how hot and erotic it is!
     
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