I’d say most of my life I’m about 80% straight. The other day I was in a crowd of people and I could look around and see women that I could imagine having sex with. Not one guy did I look at and think “I would have sex with him”. Then today I’m driving home from work and on the radio I hear someone say “gay sex” and instantly my mind goes to thoughts of having hot sex with a guy. It’s unusual what will spark a sexual thought or even how sexuality works in humans.
I have learned that there's no telling what'll spark a sexual though in my mind. My mind just isn't in the gutter - it owns the gutter.
I’d say mostly think and look at girls but I think if something or mind wanders and boom thinking about cock no tspark mind goes where it wants to
i agree with Oldernow. I look at girls and get really aroused and then my thoughts turn to cock. Then it is off to the races!
For me, i always addict to masturbate, until a femboy keep seducing and just want to try if it works...
Sexuality is a continuum for most people. It changes over time. While I have had an attraction for men’s cocks as long as I can remember I didn’t ever as a young man think about men as being attractive in the same way I thought about women. That has gradually changed with me. Just the other day a guy I am aquatinted with an I were having a conversation and he let on that he is going through a divorce with his wife. This guy is attractive, and I think of him that way. My mind went straight to imagining he and I having sex.
What sparks me is when I'm having a good conversation with a man and suddenly we both realize at the same time that we want to do more than talk. First there is a bit of a gaze, and things just get so quiet in that very charged moment. It happens right before one of us has the courage to either touch the other person or propose getting it on. That quiet moment is such a turn-on.
I'm like Travler. I'm always looking at women and thinking "I could do her". Looking at men and nothing. Let my friend ask if I'll take be home tonight, instant hard on.
It’s random as fuck for me. One week I can’t get big tits out my mind. The next week I’m scrolling through pics of men in panties showing off their ass. Want to pin someone down and fuck them a hard as can one moment and want them too treat me like their personal whore the next just a flip of the coin
Like most of us here, out in the real world for all of my life I'd be sexually aroused by just seeing women that I find attractive, but never having any such thoughts and feelings with attractive guys I'm seeing out and about. I'd never give them a second look. I would only let my gay desires for cock and ass come out when alone, either at home or driving by myself, or of course seeing a guy's cock and ass in the locker room at the gym. But that has started to change the last couple of years as I've started accepting the ever growing gay side of myself and loving it. So a couple of times I've seen a cute ass or a noticeable cock bulge on a guy out and about, and start having gay feelings for him, desire for his body, cock and ass. But the biggest trigger for me switching into gay mode is being rejected by women. When my first girlfriend broke up with me for the third time after a three year relationship, gay thoughts and desires exploded into my conscious mind all of a sudden while on a long road trip, and that started my bisexual adventures over the last 33 years. Every time a girl rejected me after that, I went gay crazy with jerking off to gay porn and eventually going out looking for real stuff. And I got rejected a lot, which is why I've been single all my life, only had two girlfriends, and only had sex with those two women and a prostitute ones. But I may have stayed single as well because possibly unconsciously I always knew that being monogamous with a woman would be impossible for me, because my gay side was always too strong to ignore. It's funny, now just looking at naked women on porn sites--pictures or videos--stroking my cock to them all, enjoying lesbian sex, would only last for half an hour, before I switch spontaneously into major gay mode, after which I could spend the next 10 hours edging my cock to gay porn and fantasies. And, finally, what has always triggered me in the last 33 years is watching straight porn, with a man and woman having sex, or bisexual MMF threesomes: just seeing a woman there and also seeing a guy's cock would instantly switch me into gay mode, and I would have to immediately switch to gay porn. I think all that pain I experienced with women rejecting me is partly why a few years ago I switched from identifying as a bisexual man to now identifying as a fully gay man--still attracted to women, but without any desire to have sex with a woman ever again. I am now even open to a romantic relationship with a man. But I mostly want to have tons of sex with guys, much more so than I've been having throughout these 33 years.
@RisingBi, I used to "make a living" off of guys who'd get rejected or dumped by a woman and they'd get an urge to have sex with a guy. Indeed, I used to get with guys who said that the only time they wanted to have sex with a dude was when (a) they didn't have a woman and/or (b) they couldn't get any pussy even if they tried to pay for it. With some guys - and I kinda hated myself for this one - would be easy to get in the sack because they'd be all down in the dumps and emotionally labile and, wow, man, I'm sorry that she dumped you but, um, shit, if I thought it would make you feel better, I'd suck your dick... They'd go from looking at me like I was crazy to unzipping their pants and freeing their cock for me to suck and, man, talk about getting sparked? I'd suck them off, let them fuck me and even convince them to suck me or to let me fuck them because, well, you know, I need to get off, too. And a lot of those guys would come back to me until (1) they finally got a woman or got some pussy or (2) they got dumped or rejected again. Usually, if I saw them headed in my direction, I knew why they were. Hey, my brother, I understand and it's nothing that a nice blow job can't take care of...
Lol, @KDaddy23! "Making a living...." That's so funny. My gosh, if you got a dollar for every guy you've sucked or fucked, .... Well, I'll let you finish the sentence. I'm glad you were there for them. I see that route for many, not able to find a woman, and needing to have some sexual contact, and especially to have their cock sucked to orgasm, and therefore turning to a man for that, a man like you that might persuade them to reciprocate, and perhaps even begin to enjoy it a little. Or, like you say, being dumped by a woman actually making them want to have sex with a guy, arousing gay desires and fantasies in them, like it was for me. We don't want a woman substitute to blow us in these situations. We want men--their cocks and/or asses, and perhaps in some rare situations, their love. If it weren't for the stupidity, dare I say insanity, of some women, there would be a lot fewer bisexual guys I dare say.
@RisingBi, there still might be a lot of bisexual guys because women aren't the only reason why a guy will turn to the dick side. One guy I knew said that he wanted to try sex with a guy to answer a question: "Is this all there is?" and he was talking about sex with women. He wasn't complaining about any of the sex he'd had with women but, yeah, sure, is pussy all there is to having sex? I showed him that, nope, there's more than just pussy. A lot of guys were curious to begin with and all they needed was to meet a guy who (a) had done it with a guy before and (b) would love to do something with him and, yup, that would be me (but not always). I found that guys who were really stressed out, bummed out, frustrated, and a few other negative emotions could be ripe picking for me to get his dick in my mouth at the least, my ass at the most. A guy had gotten laid off from his job that he'd worked for 15 years and, yeah, he was pretty bummed out but a double blowjob from me, well, it relieved the stress he was under. Don't get me started with guys who liked to get pretty drunk or stoned off of certain things that would lower their inhibitions - or remove them. And if I had that dollar for every guy I've sucked or fucked, my retirement fund would be a whole lot healthier. A whole lot. Why? Because when those guys came to me and wound up either asking me for sex or, um, I might have talked them into it, I rarely said no. A guy says, "Damn, I wish I could get my dick sucked right about now!" and, yeah, sometimes, that's not a very subtle hint on his part but some guys say it and, well, um, I could do that for you, you know, if you really want your dick sucked right this very moment. Lot of them wound up being bi because they agreed with me when I said that it's not being greedy to want the best of both sexual worlds. One such guy said, "What do I have to lose?" and my answer was, "Some cum!" After finding out that sucking a guy's prick wasn't all that bad (heh, heh) he said, "I enjoyed what we did but it's not something I'd do all of the time..." and I said, "That's okay because it's not something I do all of the time, either - but when I get a chance to? I'm doing it..." Apparently, that made sense to him. What gives me a different kind of sparking is being able to introduce a guy, he has no ill effects from doing it, and he goes on to be bisexual himself.
