what should i do man?

ok so heres the deal. i started smoking weed about 7 months ago and my parents found out but they think that ive only smoked once..well im sure they have their suspicions and im sure they still think i do it because i make jokes about drugs and such all the time and talk about the wonderful mj every now and then. also the other day my dad smelt me after i had just smoked ahahahahaha(he just gave me a bad look..i guess hes pretty cool) but my mom doesnt trust me AT ALL and im thinking life would be so much easier on my part if she didnt think i did drugs. but on the other hand i want everyone to know i smoke because i hate pretending to be someone that im not you know? and i want them to accept me for who i am and what i do. given im only 15 it would still be nice...so do you think i should manipulate my parents into believing im clean now or should i keep hinting that im still smoking and what not? i cant decide on this one i would really like you guys opinions.

i also cant decide if i want to lie to the friends that i have that dont approve of it. one of my best friends (that i dont hang out with that much for the reason im about to tell you) told on me once i told her i smoked pot..luckily i told her after my parents knew because i had a feeling she would do that..should i stop being friends with her or just completely lie to her?


btw, have any of yall ever taken meprozine? how did you like it?

 

in my opinion, i wouldn't hint at all that you smoke weed(to your parents) reason 1: they obviously don't like it nor you smoking it. and reason number 2: they will hurt you and do bad things to you if they find out.

man you need to be more smart about this, why the hell would keep giving hints to your parents if they don't like marijuana? So they can accept you as you? dude do that with your friends at school and be a rebel or whatever you want to do but not your parents. ok now with your friend thing, it's your choice if you still want to be friends with her. if you don't like the fact that she is going to be narcing on you everytime you tell her you smoke then don't tell her anything. and to the other friends that don't approve of it then my best advice would be to hang out with friends that do(aka stoners) or straight up tell them your going to be smoking wether they like it or not and at least have them accept you for what you want to be and not criticize you all the time. and if they still do then they arn't worth being your friends. it's your choice on what you want to do with your life not your friends.

 

^^fully agree with 40oz on this one, but also, be REALLY careful of ur friend that narc'd, cause if she's capable of telling ur parents, she's prolly capable of telling someone who could get u in a LOT of trouble, i.e. cops, school personnel. just not sht u wanna deal with. but it's ur call man.

 

I dont agree. Her intentions are pure, indeed toking is not yet seen as acceptable in our society. Yet. I realize its a hard at that age to be open about something like that, especially with your parents, but more people should adopt an attitude like this and try to make others more open and tolerant of people's personal choices. Our generation can change the world, promote tolerance and acceptance of others, try to encourage an open mind by setting an example with yourself.
Sorry kind of ranted off there...but anyways, good luck.

 

i guess it would be easier to just let them believe im clean..but opening up their minds and knowing i was a part of that would be amazing

 

Nice Dream

 

hey a girl can dream cant she?

maybe i will just take the easier road and completely bull shit my way through adolescence..ah well

 

maybe i will just take the easier road and completely bull shit my way through adolescence..ah well

adolescence is tough for all, so my advice is: I you can dazzle 'em with details, baffle'em with bullshit!

 

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i was in the same situation. parents found my stash twice, i got bored of the lying from
then on.. told my mum earlier i was planning on a making a batch of brownies.. she just
looked at me and walked out ;D

 

Yeah theres only so much lieing you can do until you realize it just gets old.. same happend with me

 

exactly..i guess ill just slowly open them up to my views and such..which is what ive been doing..its just hard with a mother whos a conservative baptist that still hasnt given up on her "immoral child" haha.

but for now i think i will manipulate them about the drugs so ill get my way more.. :]

 

haha my mom is a conservative baptist too man

 

Tell them when your older is it worth the grief. Your mum may prefer not to no.

 

hmm i never thought of that..you have a point there...i think shes one of those ppl that like to know though

 

what "sir_tokes_alot" told u..
If u love the mary jay for it self not because other force u too
If you into that hippy stuff showem that you are intrested because it opens your mind
What ever it is you want to do to convince them
But its good to show that your doing it independtly not being a follower or shadow of someone else

 

yeah..i mean it was others that introduced me to mj but my parents know im not one to just "follow" people to fit in.




thanks for all of yalls advice its really helped me a lot :]

 

OP has the problem of misinformed friends, firstly. Also, being 15, you are still your parents' bitch.

I just recently came out to my mom, telling her that I've been tokin' for roughly 5 years and hey look, you couldnt even tell! She was surprized, but I don't think she's disappointed. Shit, both my parents have smoked weed before, and my dad did weed laced with opium in 'nam. Big fucking deal.

I say.. Go about your normal thing of keeping to yourself. It's none of their business unless they ask, or the subject pops up. Learn the facts, inform your friends who are distinctly anti-weed, casually inform your parents if the subject comes up.

 

i hear ya ^whispering woods^

btw..all of yall should hit up bonnaroo this summer..tom petty and i will be there and so should you

 

im going we should get hipforums members to meet up!