What happens after you have sex?

Lay in bed and cuddle? Cigarette?

Just curious about what people do after you've had sex... With my last boyfriend, we'd just lay in bed and cuddle and kiss, and talk and eventually it'd lead to round two... I adored it. The guy I'm with now gets up and puts his pants on, has a cigarette, and does whatever he was doing prior to sex, and it's extremely annoying.

Anyhow, post away. :biggrin:

 

preferably cuddling and then a nap :]

 

i leave.
just kidding but usuly its some more oral sex followed by us laying there staring at the celing

 

cuddle, and start again

 

Order out for Chinese Food

 

Bong! ;P

 

Drink a bunch of ice water, and then either cuddle and fall asleep, cuddle and do it again, or go do something else.

 

I, strangely enough, get very hyper-active after sex! I also love to talk and have fun, and talk about serious stuff, love being close to her after, then all of a sudden I hug her tightly, kiss her, and we go again for it. When we are ultimately finished, I like to either have a long nice talk with warm tea and stuff, watch T.V together, or hang out somewhere.

 

:biggrin: You guys are awesome.

I'm just getting really fucking sick of After-Sex with my boyfriend... I just feel like "Thank you, for letting me lay here naked, with a load of your cold cum inside me (and no tissues to be seen), while you wander off to have a cigarette without me, and then ignore me for another half hour."

And the sex isn't even good.

 

Sounds no fun. Lots of great guys out there, why stick with the lame ones? Oh yeah... chicks dig jerks.

 

I just have a tough time ending relationships...

And celibacy is hell.

 

I feel that! I'm thankful when there's abundant sex in my life.

 

Normally cuddle. Also, for some reason, I usually crave ice water after sex.

 

I always thought it was what happened during that was important...Ive been with guys that fell asleep after but man they deserved it !!!

 

me and my boyfriend usally lie together and cuddle too, sumtimes we have to get up if its morning sex etc but usually cuddle up together....he usually dozes off aswell but i think thats quite sweet altho can be irritating when i want to chat to him.....that sucks about your boyfriend being a bit distant by the sounds of it, have u spoke with about it? cold cum and no tissues is never good!!! u just know its gonna drip down ur leg wen u run for the bathroom.

 

Hahahha. :biggrin: No kidding. Drippage. Blehhh.

I've spoke to him about it, but nothing changes... To me, it seems like sex is a chore for him... He never initiates it (quite often he'll even push my hand away when I try to), he never makes a single sound during (until right after he finishes, he tells me how tired he is now), he just doesn't seem to enjoy it in general... So... I don't either.

 

Wake her up...duh?

 

Heh, interesting OP/responses. It depends. I usually like to kiss and cuddle for at least a few minutes immediately following sex. What I do after that depends on my mood: sometimes this will lead to a round 2. Other times I'll just go over to the computer and check e-mail/read news/forums etc., other times I'll go to take a shower, and other times I'll go to eat/drink something.

 

lol. Or dump her body in the park!


I kid, I kid.

 

It sounds like this guy is a fool. He has a hot young girlfriend who fequently wants to have sex and even initiates it and he is too disinterested to tell her how good it feels when he is doing her, doesn't enjoy himself, and leaves her sticky, wet and annoyed while he goes out for a smoke? Ending a relationship is a difficult thing to do, very difficult if you live together and share much of your friends and lives together. That being said, if he is isn't practically humping your leg for sex and giving you your share of the orgasms, he isn't worth staying for and it will only get more difficult the more time that passes.