What first attracts you to someone?

I guess I think that I am not really that unique, but I am not a breast man, leg man, eyes, knees or anything like that. I am really attracted to women who look like the know how to kiss. Nice soft lips that could take kissing to an all night go around. What do you think?

 

The eyes are the window to the soul...

 

with girls, eyes and breasts.

with guys, eyes and butt.

 

face and torso. the guy has to have a beautiful face, and a nice slim body with cute nipples. and no chest hair. idk why, but i just don't like it.

 

personality

 

the eyes...especially if they look kind...love kind people, don't like unkind people.

 

breasts

 

changes from person to person
some people, just have something about them that draws me...pheromones i suppose
i'm gonna say i am first attracted to pheromones!

 

Depends on what I notice first, could be a hot face, if I see a backside first and a great ass, or if I'm getting up to go from my lecture and a hottie walks past the row below me and I get a great view of her rack...I mean common there's no straight answer.

 

Courage I am a very dominant person, so what attracted me to people was their courage when they approached me.

My husband appreciates that I am a strong woman most of the time I appreciate that he took the time to get to know me.

I'm only a b*tch when provoked >

 

charm

 

I have to say intelligence is the first thing, then a sense of humor.

 

It's the face. Without a good look at the face you can't say whether you'd hit it or not. So it has to be the face. And as for all you mentioning non aesthetic qualities as being the most attractive...you bore me. (I think you're lying to yourself)

 

Any one factor can attract me in different ways...

I nice ass, eyes, legs, etc attracts my libido.

Someone who is really smart attracts my brain.

Someone who is really sweet attracts my heart.

It's really off the hook when it's all in one package!!!

 

personality

compassion is a very sexy quality.

 

they both work together. you could give me the best lookin' guy in the world (according to my exact specifications), and if he was dumb as a stump or had a mean, ugly personality...i wouldn't want to have anything to do with him. another important 'non-aesthetic' factor is his attraction to me. men who don't find me attractive are automatically less attractive to me. so there is more to it than what they look like...a lot more.

 

But the question was what first attracts you to someone, not what 5 qualities do you find attractive as you get to know someone. So naturally the poll listed physical traits as options to choose from.

I do understand your point, and pretty much agree with you in principle.

 

Eyes first...nose second. On a girl it's the lips first.

 

the whole image
if out of the list...eyes and hair

 

i still say personality

the bulk of my bf's are ones ive met online, with grainy horrible pictures that didnt look anything like they really did. so i got to know their personality via email and phone before we even met up, and thats what got me really interested in them. if i bore you, then fucking ignore me instead of being an asstard about it