What about swinging? Threesomes?. Foursomes?

What is the perception of swinging these days
? I tried swinging many years ago because it felt more honest than cheating or misleading someone. At a swing club everyone there knows the scene, it seems more honest. If you go to a search engine and search NASCA swing clubs you can get a list of clubs in your area. Anyone tried this scene?

 

As appealing as unattached fun freewheeling sex with multiple partners sounds, I can't get over the idea that there is NO WAY to protect myself from disease in such a "scene," so no, I've never been willing to try it. The sacrifice would be way too great.


A couple of other concerns:

- If you're not a super-hot-looking person, are you gonna just be passed over? Or are they egalitarian about who gets to fuck whom?

- If everyone who looks like whatever gets to fuck, does that mean that there'll be lots of kinda iffy-lookin' people and you'll be expected to fuck them just because, well, they're there and so are you? I kinda picture a typical nude beach -- the people there are not known for being real young and hot.

- How would it feel to show up there and then have no one interested in doing you? Or is the operating principle, "Everyone is expected to just jump on in and no one's supposed to say, "Eww, not you!"

Not that I'm ugly or anything, I was just wondering.

Blue skies,
-Jeffrey