hm...I know that sometimes sharing to people I don't know is better than talking with my friends...anyway, they don't know I know that guy from like two years.Online.I've never seen him, and he lives miles away.It may sound very stupid for you, I don't think I'm in love with him, but he made my life much brighter. He's normaly shy, and outsider.but our first talk was like 4 hours.And I felt we lived through the same things, that we're the two different sides of the same soul.I still feel that.He wrote me a song after that, you know?It made me so happy.And, without saying something big, like I care so much about you, you mean so much for me, I know that he thinks about me, and with simple things he says a lot.We have some fantasies sometimes, we dream about so weird things, like having a pirateship, haha.tough we never talked about us as something like relationship.But our conversations didn't change, and they're so weird for other people, but it really makes me happy.It makes him too.I know that if we lived on the same place, we probably would be together, but now, the distance stops me.I know that he feels something for me, but the perspective of seeing me once a year like stops him too.He never told me that but I know.I dreamed that someday I'll go to his place without telling him and tell everything that I haven't but I know he knows in the most surprising way I can imagine.But I can't say i love him.I don't know how he speaks, how he moves, how he looks when he's waking up, and all those little things that are so important.thanks for listening
he has no money to do trips, I know when he can he will.but he has some problems with finding a job related to some problems he had in past
How far apart are you? We lived over 1500 miles apart (2414km) it took a while to save up for him to move here.
distance doesnt seperate 2 souls bound if its meant to be it will be i met aura online, she lives 10,000 miles away..pretty much a whole different world but the bonds were not weakened by distance and in the next week or 2 she'll be here if yas wanna be together be together, if he cant work then split the costs or pay his way (id be sure though to really understand why he cant, & be sure that hes not gonna just end up using you) .. it sounds like u definately got a great freindsship & perhaps the building blocks for a great relationship, just if thats whaqt u want dont let distance be a factor
You mentioned you are not sure if you love him or not, but it sounds like you do and maybe u're just not ready to admit it. Either way, I am the type of person that believes nothing is impossible. If you can dream it, you can achieve it. With that said, if you want to be with him, if even in ur dreams there is a little bit of hope... then why not? Don't let anything stop you from getting your dream, not even distance. There's been a couple of threads that talk about long distance relationships. Personally, I tried one a couple of years ago and it didn't work out, but there are lots of people that did make it work out so don't feel like if that's an unbearable obstacle for you two. Hope that helps
when i first met my fiancee online it was the same way we talked for hours on end, all day, every spare second we had. *sigh* you're young yet, it may be best to keep this online for a while longer, than try to meet up a few times and see if the feelings are right and you like those little things about him you mentioned, then try to talk to him about it.
well,for a few things you're right and for some, not.it's true that distance isn't a true factor to separate us.It's more that we live in two absolutely different countries.we don't share the same religion/both christians, different type, but about that I don't care very much/.And there's one thing that I really DO care about-we don't share a common language.it's true we both speak english but I think all the time about the Nelson Mandela's phrase "If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart."I'm from the balcans and I adore my laNguage.even if somehow I can leave my country, I couldn't leave my language. but it's true, that what I know in him, I love.it's just I don't know the things in him that can be known only in real life-and I don't know if I'll love them.same about him.I don't wanna go fast with that,as dangermoose said, I'm still young, but if I let that flow, won't he accept me more as a friend?cause now, he says those things, like "you're beautiful", and "you can make me dance only if I dance with you "and I know that it means he shares my feelings,but will it last? that makes me so confused.probably I should let the things like that untill we see each other.what has to happen will happen that time.
I just talked to the guy and told him "so, when do you plan to come to my beach here, in Bourgas" and the conversation ended like he's going to visit me this summer.then it was so weird because we both started to worrya lot and he said that he doesn't want to disappoint me, I said it's the same for me too, but it would be a pitty if we know each other only by internet.he agreed and now I can't stand on my feet.I'm happy and I have some weird feeling, like when I see him everything beautiful between us can end.I knowhe was honest with me all the time.when we meet, will we still get along that well? he would never get money from me.he wouldn't accept that.he's a man after all, and he knows how hard is to me to work for the money i receive.just after saying he'll visit me, he said "I don't want you to feed me!"he's a gentleman after all, isn't he
Call me old school, but I also think the guy should pay. I always pay for everything when I go on dates, especially the first one. If you guys wanna move towards the next step of the relationship then it's a good idea that you meet each other. Am sure you're going to be nervous as hell but just be optimistic about it
haha I agree with you.He'd never ask money from me and I think that's a rgiht thing, he's a man after all.yeah, I am nervous!Dunno exactly when we'll meet, but it will be this summer, and we both can't be patient.but I'm happy.at least it will be a good adventure for my personal life experience.thanks to all who replied that thread
Well I dont know if you've seen the guy...if you have ...awesome. If you havent be careful there sweetie. If he makes you happy though just tell him over the phone or something. Arrange to meet up and such. Who cares if other peple think it's strange or whatever...it's what you think of it. Just asking...please be careful if you've never seen him. Talk to THAT BOY about this. That's the best thing to do. Peace!
don't worry..it's not like I know him frm a month, we chat from like 2 years...I rarely trust people by internet, but I trust him for everything, and he seems pretty normal.if there was anything suspicious about him it had to pop up in all that time
just wanted to tell that he came here and we're together from 5 months almost, and it's all going great, really
i have really no idea...but you know, when there's distance i guess we both had doubts....but it's all in the pasthe'll even move here in some time....
