well, i guess i was just told how it is

my husband just called on his break and i asked him A- if he'd bring the digital camera home (he keeps it at his locker at work cause i left it at a friends house for two days but got it back....i was also drinking then and i am no longer drinking. well im pissed. i might have like four tonight but i mean i was DRINKING THEN..... so i left it somewhere and got it back and now he keeps it at work...) He says "fine, either that or ill throw it in the dumpster".

Then I said "when i asked you to lay down and hug me and talk to me you said you were gonna clean the house and couldnt and you didnt even take out the trash" right then before i could say anything else he starts screaming, saying he's not taking my shit..... i said ALL I WANTED TO KNOW IS WHY YOU LIED TO ME. he said cause he decided he didnt feel like it so whatever i tell him that im doing all the dishes and cooking and cleaning up HIS SHIT so dont worry about it.

then i said are you moving out? cause we've been discussing it. he said "yep, you made up my mind right now....im moving out or if i stay ill burn the fucking house down and bash your head in you stupid ****"

CLICK.

call back. no answer.
see..... i already was gonna be getting a divorce--- already have someone that many of you know who it is moving in here hopefully in about a month...... but last night i was sitting around thinking of all the fun ive had with dan at the beach and even the park last week and i was crying cause i was gonna miss my best friend..... so second thoughts? yes.... its hard to be sure about such drastic changes but i guess i made up my mind for good now. i just cant believe he'd treat me like that when i told him i didnt even care that he didnt clean i wanted to know why he LIED. whatever.

There are people who would never treat me like that.

 

oh and he told me a whole bunch of other shit about how he cant fucking stand me and he hates me. i hate being spoken to like that.
he's a piece of shit.
seriously.


good. get the fuck out.

 

He should have bitched slapped you, to truly make the point stick.

Seriously though...

http://youtube.com/watch?v=Mm70afsCO7k

 

dumbass, no!

well, if you insist on having 4 tonight, make sure that 4 is all that's in the house, and don't even think about going to buy more...


anyway, i'm sorry about the hubby... i'm sure the situation is hard on him too and he's not just out to hurt you... it seems like he's put up with quite a bit...

 

well he just called to apologize. wtf.

 

sorry about all your bullshit lucky.
but ya, he shoulda got his point across in a cool, all american way.

 

Nothing justifies what he did. But you have to think of it from his position you've probably put him through a lot. Maybe he's just taking out his resentment in a bad way.

 

What a pussy.

 

there are only a small amount of beer in the house anyways. ive been doing GOOD the past couple days just having a few (less every day) and cutting down on the benzos. that's why i dont get why he's so mad at me NOW. he's mad that i did dope n stuff but I AM DONE WITH ALLL THAT. im going to the doctor tomorrow to wean off the benzos safely. i dont know when im TRYING..... sitting here shaking but not drinking....that he has to treat me like shit NOW.


pavel
good song. im gonna have to favorite it.

 

who? him for apologizing?

 

perhaps hes close to his breaking point, if not already at it? youve seen how some folk reacted on the internet to repeated stories of your drug misadventures, i can only imagine how much mroe stressful and heart wrenching it would be to witness in person, let alone when its happening to someone you love and care for

 

Great meaning!

 

duh, flip- floppin bewtween emotions.
ain't cool, unless your a pussy

 

i understand. he gets a call that i overdosed on dope n benzos. then he finds a dope bag in the house later. i understand he used to be a junkie....i mean shooting up, running away from rehab, he does NOT want that shit in his house and i have NEVER done it around him. im not even addicted to it but he's afraid of the friends i have now....cause some ARE daily users of dope and he thinks ill become like them....

but you see, i am not doing dope again and im trying to get off the benzos.

IM TRYING.
and he choses NOW when im in withdrawl pain to flip on me?

 

well everyone can go around thinking he is perfect to. that he wasnt in my face the other day saying he was gonna tear my head off..... that he lies to me all the time....cause you know....its just me that does anything wrong.


sure he's almost at his breaking point. but so am i.

 

Yeah, total faggot.

He's your bitch. Make him do the dishes while you sit there and shit yourself out of a pure endorphin rush.

 

Maybe he doesn't think you're going to do it. How many times have you made the claim that you are going to get clean? Even if you are telling the truth now it must be hard for him to believe you. Maybe he just doesn't want to watch you go through that cycle again.

 

did anyone in this thread state that hes perfect? no. you were wondering "why now?", this was a plausible explanation. its hard for BOTH of you, not just one of you. a nd the two of you tearing and clawing at each other,t aking your frustrations out on one another is NOT FUCKING HELPFUL. if you want this shit to work out i highly recommenda couples counsellor... but its not like you ever listen to a suggestoin that comes from me at any rate

 

Couples counseling doesn't usually work on people who have actively done heroin throughout their lives. They are just not that white.

 

lol