we have no friends how bout u?

Discussion in 'True Confessions' started by HerbuhLovuh, Mar 10, 2006.

  1. HerbuhLovuh

    HerbuhLovuh raa

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  2. nimh

    nimh ~foodie~

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    did you edit your post?
     
  3. SpliffVortex II

    SpliffVortex II Banned

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    Friends only care when you have money . very few care when your out. i learn this the hard way.
     
  4. Grapefruity

    Grapefruity Sunny Side Up

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    well you have to find good friends not ashholes ;p
     
  5. YankNBurn

    YankNBurn Owner

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    I like being alone. It saves alot of problems and pain!
     
  6. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    in person? not e-friends? i have a handful.. i'm socially retarded though
     
  7. Brand New Soul

    Brand New Soul Senior Member

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    Man what type of people have you hung around with? Their assholes if thats what their like. Trust me there are some really cool people out there! There just really hard to find.
     
  8. Tigerbeam

    Tigerbeam Member

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    I hermit it with the best of 'em.
     
  9. HerbuhLovuh

    HerbuhLovuh raa

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    I will find more people who live beyond the borders of money!
    Yea. People live to work. They will not have much time for people who live to live!
     
  10. alex714

    alex714 To the Left

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    I'm a lone ranger
     
  11. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    I don't do a whole lot with my friends...I do the obligatory party or clubbing when i feel out of the loop or like people are getting annoyed with me for being a hermit but since I got sick and can't really drink and can't smoke or do coke because of work i feel like left behind when I go out...I'm feeling better though so hopefully soon I'll get my groove back...I'm going out next weekend for drinks and then march 30th for a concert so yeah...hopefully I won't be anti-social anymore as I really do miss my friends and if I don't get out there I'm going to lose them like I did last year when i was anti-social.
    Why do you guys have a hard time making friends? Don't you live in arcadia? People are cool as hell up there.
     
  12. wiz561

    wiz561 Member

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    Sounds like we have similar problems! We really have no friends either, except for two dogs! I can't drink, smoke, or do drugs because of work as well. So, that has been sort of a problem with trying to meet friends, especially when you're in your late 20's. A lot of our friends like to go out and drink, smoke, and do drugs....and when you're not doing it, it's just a strange feeling....which I'm sure you can relate to.

    It also sounds like you're afraid that if you don't go out to bars and do drugs with them, then you'll loose them. Ask yourself this...how good of friends are they if they can't accept you for who you are?

    My suggestion, get a dog or two. ;-) They will keep you busy enough and give you all the love in the world. Also, check out www.meetup.com. I've never gone to a meetup before, but we're on there and it sounds like it's really cool. You can meet people with similar interests as you in your area.

    Good Luck!
     
  13. HerbuhLovuh

    HerbuhLovuh raa

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    Yea
    I am not into drinking and have never been interested in clubbing
    Puts me to sleep LoL
    We Don't live in arcadia, but rather sacramento.
    When honeyhannah goes home for a month or so to visit in the east I will maybe go back to humboldt county with my sleeping bag and do some spiritual questing in the forest!
    One of my interests right now is finding new cleanses for wild living based off eating wild greens.
     
  14. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    sacramento.. that explains everything
     
  15. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    ): ahhh man sacremento? ): can you move?

    (((((hugs)))))
     
  16. GreenBird

    GreenBird Member

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    me neither :(
     
  17. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    maybe it's just this area. i'm about 30 minutes from sacramento.. and couldn't make a friend if my life depended on it.
     
  18. Crayola

    Crayola =)

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    just try being poor, u'll kno if your friends are true.


    i can honestly say my friends are not there for money haha
     
  19. woodcat

    woodcat Senior Member

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    Where is sacramento? Try moving to England, were all very friendly here.
     
  20. HerbuhLovuh

    HerbuhLovuh raa

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    People tend to be friendly in sacramento, too. Bonded friends, though, have similarities in spirit and purpose.
     
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