Whenever I get high, i always feel like I could get with a chick, even the girls that i just have a natural attraction to (Im gay btw...i think) but i just don't "want" to. i don't find it attractive. is there a way to train my brain so to speak, to "want" a girl? I am still high btw so i dunno if this clearly describes what im trying to say
IME, 'overcoming' sexual preferences is possible, but it takes a lot of effort to get to that place where it feels comfortable and not just 'shocking'. It can be a lot of fun, and pretty eye opening for personal exploration, but I personally had problems with longer term stuff - mainly to do with not 'wanting' it quite as much as the other person; at times I felt like I was just being a little unfair on them, at other times I literally felt I needed to escape. Maybe if they were more chilled about it things would have worked better. If you do it, be honest with the person, and keep the pressure off... just relax. It'd probably help to hook up with someone with some sexual+life experience too
ehh it would be easier to be straight. although now that im sober again. guys are fucking hotttttttttttttt. I just hate when i get high i always think I can become straight, and then it makes me question myself. Usually when im sobered up I throw that thought aside.
Ditto. I am, I believe, unidentifiable until the booze comes out. I like it this way.. But then, after a few vodka diet cokes, I become as camp as a row of tents round Christmas time.
yea lay on the liquor I turn pretty campy. getting stoned doesn't make me want to be straight though. being straight may very well be "easier" but you can knock up girls, they make you pay childcare, and you will be stuck in a dark lonely little closet. hell you could be bi.
I get pretty straight when I'm drunk. I almost had a threesome with two girls while being drunk, it made me laugh.
E is very bisexual for me haha. well in the sense that i love everyone. but it is wicked gay and awesome.
