virgin: should i feel left behind at 16?!

hello, should i have felt " left behind" as a virgin at age 16? (turnin 17 real soon)

i would like to think i shouldnt feel that way, but when freinds that act like players or are players come up to me and are like ARE U A VIRGIN, i hate to say YEA...i dont know why, it doesnt seem to bother them, and no one has ever said " WATTA LOSER" lol but ifeel that way hehe i feel soooo agrivated and annoyed when i say IM A VIRGIN. b/c im not like un social and dont have girlz, i look pritty good, im confident, and i do i get girls, and ive messed around with girls a few times b4, so whats da big deal, why does it get me so mad?!!!?! i dont feel like i need to rush into it. i want to kind of cuz i wanna c wat it feels like, but i dont think it would make me feel any more of a MAN, or a player. u guyz kno wat i mean?!

SHEEEEESH just telme what u think...thanks n peace..!

 

nahits just silly
playas mostly are just all talk..but evenif not whats so great bout bein 1?
ya shouldnt ever ever feellike u gotta do somethin just cause everyone else did (not that they did..sat your age probly bout 50% o0f em are too)

thinkof it this way..too soon can be dammaging too late dont exist..well as long as it happens someday..lol
if your pushin 60 & a virgin..id say ya should feelweird biut it but lotsa ppl wait into early 20's even & aint nuthin wrong with waitin to make sure its right

but hey you'll get alotta dumbasses come here & say yea your a pussy or whatever..
idiots like to pick on ppl cause theyre just not smart enoughto do or say anything constructive
ya kno..iwouldnt doubt if 3/4 of the 16 yr olds here are..y should ya feelweird? hey maybe ya should feelproud youyr secure enough tosay yea..iam..so what?

 

no way dude. don't feel bad at all. i had a friend who had sex as soon as he turned 16. for the next few months that was all we heard about. what a "playa" he was and such. if they feel like they truly need to tell everyone about it to make themselves feel better, chances are they haven't even done anything, or, if they have, they were shitty. it really isn't that huge of a deal. do it when you're ready. to go along with what you said about hating to say "yeah" when asked if your a virgin, just don't say anything. just give them that sorta "i know something you don't know" grin. peoples imaginations will beat the reality every time.

 

Damn dawg Im 20 and still what the doctors would call a "virgin". Dont get too hung up on it, I do at times but just let things happen as they happen. Dont rush it and make mistakes. VIRGIN FOR LIFE!

 

why would you allow those to set that time table for you personally.

Can you really trust those who say that they are doing what ever to be doing so and to be honest why should that matter, period.

If you are ready in your own life to make the decision to be intimate with anyone, then also be aware and responsible as that is an indicator of if you are really ready.

As far as the crap talk about you should as we are and all that.........leave it as it is locker room stuff and reality is not that.

If you are ready, protect you and your partner.

Other than that it is not anyone's business.

 

Nah, i was 16 when i lost mine and it was great but if i had lost it later it would not have made me feel any better about myself, there's no reason to get hung up about what everyone else is doing, if you really want to lose it, make sure your doing it for yourself and not society, but if on a personal level your not too fussed then dont worry about it, there's nothing wrong with a 16 year old (or 17 year old ) virgin.

P.S. there is something wrong with a 16 year old who types like you, practice a little grammer

 

Shit, 16 I'd say is about the average age, though I've known plenty of people at all different ages, up to like 25+

 

agreed, altho i've met some in thereyre 30's..its prolly not real healthy for em tho..actualy my uncle..is 60+ far as anyone knows never had asingle date..still lives withhis mom (my grandmom)..just 1 of those sad religios types..nice guy..just..lil..well guess it makes sence to be lil off if your a 65 yr old virgin..lol but
i've also met kids whov been havin sex since 12 or so..& ya can imagine how screwed upthey were too...
16-17-18 in that range would be the soonest id think would normaly be healthy, although some do mature eardlier &can handle it at 15

really thotheyre just numbers &meanningless it'll happen whenit happens ..& ido thinkthe longer ya wait for it the more magicalit becomes

iremember many yearsago..anidiot freind asked this girl we'd just met.. are u cursed withthat diseases called virginity
2 hours later shed come back asking me if i'd help her lose her virginity..allbecause of 1 idiots statement...
she was in tears & asking a guy shed just met totake her virginity..that aint right
let em say any ol stupid shit they want & just ignore em...&just realize theyre just idiots actn like idiots
schools are full of em

 

Yeah, most people I've met who started at like 12 and shit is kinda fucked in the head.. I seriously wouldn't be worried were I you, it'll happen when it happens, just relax and enjoy the ride

 

I was still a virgin at 19. Don't sweat it little bro.
It shows you respect females. That's not a bad thing btw.

 

It is only up to YOU to decide when the right girl comes around. As for the jerks at your school. The next time they ask you, tell them it's none of their business, or "Why, are you interested in me? No, thanks, I'm straight." That works EVERY time.

 

I was a virgin till I was around 18. But then I was rewarded by loseing my virginity to two girls at once.You'll get laid soon don't worry just start interacting with girls more.

 

thats da thing its not like i dont interact, cuz i do...i go to parties n flirt around when i can, its just i havent been in the right place at the right time...i havent been AROUND enoughf u kkno what i mean?!

i just get annoyed when ppl brag bout how much they fuck around, even if i wasnt a virgin i wouldnt "showcase" everything ive done with girls...u kno wat i mean...

 

First of all, if you hang around with girls as often as you say (im not implying you are lying) then i am certain you will be able to lose your virginity sooner or later and also with a girl that you really like/think is really hot.

Second, yeah it shits me too when guys brag, i always like hearing a few stories from my mates but it is genuinly annoying when some one just starts bragging when no one really cares.

 

The day when a person feels ashamed for being a virgin is the day hell freezes over.

 

your age says you're 18... oh well.
NO you shouldn't. i had planned on saving my virginity until marriage. sex sucks.

 

Most braggers are just talking shit anyways. I've heard guys brag and brag only to find out later that they were virgins also, or they had only been laid once or twice. Guys just like to bullshit about sex alot.

You don't want to rush into having sex with the wrong person. Take your time and let it happens when it happens. It's much better that way.

 

. Its pretty easy to tell when somebody is bullshitting.

 

if youve got a blowjob does that count as losing your verginity? i dought it but just wondering.

 

In an altruistic prayer for evolution - I hope to god you don't lose your virginity before you can spell it.