virgin hot or not? question for the men

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by sushi, Dec 15, 2004.

  1. sushi

    sushi Member

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    question for the men, does it turn you on when a girl says she's still a virgin and into you? or you prefer someone more experienced?
     
  2. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    what the hell kind of question is that...OF COURSE!! durrrrrrrr...
    I mean, is the sky blue.. is their air to breath..gee, Im scared to know how old you are...
     
  3. velvet

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    I might not be a man, but reading some of your other posts

    "Ow Yes, next week is my 21 birthday, and the fact that I am still a virgin is knocking on my head to many times now!!"

    I'd just like to say: don't pretend to be anything that you are not! It's as simple as that.. don't lie about being a virgin if asked, don't brag about it if a man thinks it's hot.. just.. be you.. or sth 'Dr. Philly' like that ;)

    So you hadn't had sex yet.. so what? If you want the experience I'm sure you can just walk into any bar, pick up a guy and have crappy sex.. or you can wait untill you love someone and have sex with him/her which will probably suck the first few times as well.

    Sex gets better in time, just like wine and stuff.. it isn't something you can force and really.. I would be kinda creeped out if I knew a guy was into me because he knows I'm a virgin (which, for the record, I am not). I mean.. what happens when you loose your virginity to him, will he go search for another virgin or something like that? That's ok if you don't love him.. but just be carefull with your feelings and bla..

    Ok.. done with the blabbering.. proceed. ;)
     
  4. andcrs2

    andcrs2 Senior Member

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    Are you absolutely sure?
     
  5. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    are you...
     
  6. andcrs2

    andcrs2 Senior Member

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    Yes.

    Each Individual/situation is unique...
     
  7. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    okay, guess you just answered your own question then..[​IMG]
     
  8. aDVan84

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    u sure of ur sureness?
     
  9. sheeprooter

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    virginity is one of the motivators for SUICIDE BOMBING. men are told they will be rewarded with virgins in the after life if they BLOW THEMSELVES TO LITTLE BITS WITH HIGH EXPLOSIVES. yea, i think it turns us on
     
  10. meishka

    meishka Grease Munky

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    i doesn't matter to me. as long as you have some idea as to what you're doing or what u want. but when it comes to taking virginity i find it to be a little pain in the ass cause you gotta go slow .
     
  11. rg420

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    I would never have sex with a virgin. So much drama would be involved, plus they would have no clue what to do.
     
  12. NaeNae

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    there was certainly no drama involved in my first time :rolleyes: what a dumb thing to say. sure, its a big deal to some but i wouldnt call it drama. and not knowing what to do? well, not knowing how to do it as well as you could is probably a better way of putting it. i personally love virgins.
     
  13. Doran

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    Well those men are also crazed radicals, who have a scewed view of reality. That said I would prefer an experienced woman.
     
  14. Al13n

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    I would have to say I would prefer a little but not necessarily alot of experience, virgins could get attached more easily to you if you took their virginity... not saying you shouldnt be in a relationship :rolleyes:
     
  15. rg420

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    I'm talking about if I was going to have a one nighter with a virgin. That would be drama. If I was in a relationship with the girl then she wanted to have sex with me then yeah maybe.

    You are right on not knowing how to do it as well as me. That's why I would not want a virgin. I don't want a girl just sitting there letting me take control or her saying ouch that hurts all the time just so I can have a tight fit. It's just not me. I rather the girl have some experience.
     
  16. rg420

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    well said..



     
  17. nest

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    experence... but id love to meet the love of my life and take her v... then give her experence :D
     
  18. authority?

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    well i'm one myself so..........
     
  19. Revenant Phantasm

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    heh its not a virgin in the afterlife for them, its like 70 or 75 i think.. and a bunch of other stuff
     
  20. dhs

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    I've only slept with one virgin in my life and if it makes a difference - it was the longest relationship I ever had. Now I also dated another who made it quite clear that she was not going to sleep with anyone prior to marriage - that would be one of my shortest relationships - heh. I cared about her, but sexual intimacy is important to me and well as I always say, you test drive a car before you buy it right? ;)
     

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